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transcriptA picture of the Ben Affleck Smoking meme, with the caption "Me seeing people on reddit telling other people to go to lemmy.world"

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[–] satans_methpipe@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

This

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[–] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

"Lemmy is great, you can choose whatever instance you want! But fuck you if you choose that one."

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

No, don't recommend that one. I don't care if you're on LW, its just not a great idea to recommend it to newcomers.

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 1 points 2 minutes ago

Well when .ee defederates from the tankies they can join the adult community

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 9 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I was forced to go to Lemmy after the post-inauguration bloodbath, but Ive liked it a lot, more than Reddit in many ways. I was getting really tired of the bots, puns, Russian Propganda, novelty accounts, TROLLS, etc.

OTOH, I feel like I can speak much more freely on Lemmy. Even before I got permabanned, Reddits Free Speech mission had become non-existent.

The downside of Lemmy is that some of my favorite subs don't have an equivalent on Lemmy. For instance, the Reddit guitar subs are very active, but the few Lemmy guitar forums are nearly empty, with posts that are days, weeks, months, and even years, apart. I tried Googling "Lemmy Guitar" for ideas, and literally every link was about Motorhead.

So I welcome more quality Reddit immigrants, as long as all the Trolls stay over there.

[–] Apple87sagan@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Help build the guitar community, tell the people on reddit to come here instead. I will do the same.

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

I can't, I'm permabanned. I tried getting around it several times, with new account names, but each one lasted a shorter and shorter time, as the algorithm honed in on me. My first alt lasted a few weeks, my last one was caught within an hour.

I do like the idea of building the Guitar community here at Lemmy, I'm just not familiar enough with the system to know how to do that. Do we start a new forum, or take over an existing one? Do we have just one and put EVERYTHING in there, or do we split it up between various subjects - general, lessons, performances, gear, amps, etc.?

[–] markovs_gun@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

How'd you manage to get banned?

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 1 points 33 minutes ago

I repeated an opinion that I'd made made times in the past without even a warning. The first time after the Inauguration, and I was permabanned, despite being a 12 year member with over 900K in karma.

I came to Lemmy, and discovered a lot of recently exiled Reddit vets with high volume posting accounts that were 10+ years old. We were the people that built Reddit over the last decade, with thousands of posts without getting banned, and suddenly ALL of us managed to say something bad enough in the same month to get permabanned.

It turned out February was a bloodbath, and an unknowm number of people were ejected, probably in the thousands. Recently we found out that Musk had been pressuring Spez, and obviously Spez capitulated, like so many other cowardly CEOs, abandoning their core Free Speech mission (which was becoming increasingly compromised anyway).

I'm still lurking over there, but the problems they were habing with puns, bots, TROLLS, Russian propaganda farmers, etc. have only gotten worse.

So now I'm at Lemmy, with a lot of other active ex-Redditors. It looks a lot like Reddit looked 12 years ago, when I started over there. I've seen many of the original posts that have become Reddit lore, and I'll miss what we built, but it's best days are definitely behind it. Now, we'll help energize Lemmy, and grow it into its own cultural powerhouse.

For me, that includes building an active, enthusiastic, supportive, POSITIVE guitar community here.

[–] LunarEwok@feddit.uk 6 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

First post on Lemmy! and oh my word… never seen such an eclectic mix of flavours of people, positions and politics in a long time.

This decentralised thing could actually be a good thing: pulls people away from bubbles and echo chambers!

Just remember to play nice :)

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 2 points 4 hours ago
[–] ns1@feddit.uk 3 points 5 hours ago
[–] burgerpocalyse@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

i said it before but lemmy hates new users

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 4 hours ago

I don't hate new users. Just, please recommend another instance to newcomers.

[–] BrutallyHonestPOS@lemm.ee 19 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

lemmy.world does not allow the use of vpn to post. vpn is basic internet hygiene. do not go to lemmy.world if you care about that, our you will not be able to post.

you can join any federated instance instead.

[–] sus@programming.dev 2 points 5 hours ago

vpn is basic internet hygiene

according to vpn companies

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 17 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

What do you want them to do? Select an instance at random, to spread them out?

[–] Comment105@lemm.ee 18 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (2 children)

Yeah, this is just stupid. I wish a significant amount of redditors would go to lemmy.world

I mean, what do you want to tell them to join? Something called "mander.xyz"? "sopuli.xyz"? Maybe something like sh.itjust.works, jlai.lu or yall.theatl.social? I'd feel awkward enough telling them to join "Lemmy" then linking to lemm.ee. Sending them to lemmy.ml would just be cruel.

[–] LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world 8 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I picked lemmy.world because it sounded the least sus

[–] Comment105@lemm.ee 0 points 12 minutes ago

As many others did, and many others will in the future.

Referring new users to a poorly named instance is a generally bad idea.

[–] 3dmvr@lemm.ee 4 points 8 hours ago

lemm.ee wasnt off to me but yeah lemmyworld seemed like the better just because it had lemmy in the name lmao, lemmy.ca maybe

[–] JayGray91@lemmy.zip 23 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Can we recommend another generic instance? .world has a few problems plaguing it right now.

[–] JayGray91@lemmy.zip 4 points 12 hours ago

You're on one of them already, IMO

The other one I have in mind is mine. Lemmy.zip even DM a starter guide after sign up.

[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I registered with blahaj first but I couldn't. Log in after a couple of months and never found a solution.

I came to Lemmy on my own but felt forced I to .World.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 5 points 9 hours ago

There are other generalist or niche instances beyond .world

[–] Hazelnutcookiez@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 21 hours ago

a generic instance is what most users need to actually make the move, if they like it or understand it better later they might choose a different insurance later, if not who cares they can still interact with others.

[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 68 points 1 day ago (15 children)

The cold truth is that to onboard people in greater numbers you need a default instance recommendation. You just do. You absolutely cannot ask potential new users (many of which will - hopefully - be casual and not so tech savvy) to sit down and undertake a multi hour research project into finding an appropriate small instance for them. You cannot reasonably expect people to look into uptime, funding and defederation lists to make an informed decision about where to register. You just need them through the door and posting and commenting and voting.

Making a new account somewhere else is super easy and painless once they're already here. We just need to get them here.

Just tell them to go to your favourite instance. Easy.

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[–] Etterra@discuss.online 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

As long as they have more than two brain cells to click together. If they can't get past the tiny technical barrier to entry then they can go somewhere else.

[–] Comment105@lemm.ee 7 points 16 hours ago

What you're saying is "reddit is fine, it can stay the front page of the internet, I don't mind"

[–] drkt_@lemmy.dbzer0.com 178 points 1 day ago (24 children)

Stop making good the enemy of perfect!

[–] DahGangalang@infosec.pub 67 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Yeah, anything to get them from reddit is good.

Plus, once they get a feel for Lemmy and the wider fediverse, they can then migrate their account elsewhere.

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[–] Sheldan@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I don't see the issue with recommending a generic instance, if your intend is to convert the generic user. It certainly is a better experience than saying 'ok, so choose what you like from this list of instances' and they don't even know the implications or what that means.

The overcomplication of Lemmy is an issue, and this behavior tries to avoid that.

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[–] longjohnjohnson@lemmy.ml 35 points 1 day ago (17 children)

A lot of people start off on a major instance, then after finding and vibing with another instance, can move to that.

There's tons of tools and things that allow for transfer of subscriptions and everything else so changing instances isn't a big deal.

The important thing is to get them on Lemmy first.

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