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My two crapped out at around the same time. So im at one now. Nothing fancy, but im pretty damed pleased for... i think it was 110? Might get a second of the same.

[–] Im_old@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

I had 3 by 23 😁

Still have only 2 kids though

[–] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago

This would seem more accurate to me if it said "Grandparents at 25". I'm the 25yo parent's age and for us, people were already considering whether they could afford 1 or 2 children with mortgage and childcare costs. I guess if we had the big screen TVs, cellphones stronger than computers, gaming computers, and cheap airfare around the world, many of us would have also decided parenting was much too expensive.

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

just bought a third yesterday...

[–] some_random_nick@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Nothing fancy, some generic 2560x1440 Acer IPS

I have a 4k OLED w/ HDR for gaming or whatever my main activity is, a second 2560x1440 for background videos, but I want a vertical monitor for terminal outputs and documents. Also just more space when I'm juggling a lot of windows

[–] BigDaddySlim@lemmy.world 92 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Baby: costs thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars over a minimum of 18 years

Monitor: shows memes and games, costs a few hundred dollars for a good one, one time purchase

Obviously the child is the stupid financial decision

[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 21 points 3 days ago (3 children)

It depends on where you live. Believe it or not, kids still care for their elderly parents in some nations.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 46 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (7 children)

Making a life-changing decision - for more than just yourself - on the assumption that they will want anything to do with you in 40 years is, how do I put this... stupid as fuck?

And that assumes they also are able-bodied, of sound mind and judgement, can care for any others financially...

My folks are getting up there in age, and I'm not getting any younger myself. They are religious, I'm not. I'm LGBT, they are bigoted. I can understand the big picture of caring for others through community, they don't. They are still very capable and mobile, I'm disabled. What side of the fence do you think I'm on?

They could have just used a fucking condom. They should have. They didn't.

[–] ReplicantBatty@lemmy.one 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My mom would straight up tell us we were supposed to take care of her when she got old, it's literally the only reason I was ever given for why I was made. For that and other reasons I'm no-contact now, but it's an incredibly toxic mindset and even worse that you're inflicting that on your kids.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My mom had moved to the guilt phase, "none of you kids will take care of me when I'm old"

[–] ReplicantBatty@lemmy.one 1 points 1 day ago

I can't speak for my siblings, but my mom at least knew better than to try that on me, I've straight up told her I resent her for ever having me, which was a little dramatic sure, but at least it got the point across lol

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[–] pr0sp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Are you telling me that you have kids only they can clean your ass and shit when you older? And people here on dbzero is giving you positive feedback?? Wow... Fucking hypocritical people when it's a rich the egotistical bastard so eat the rich but when is a normal person you celebrate it, such a clown show.

[–] TeamAssimilation@infosec.pub 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Guess someone doesn’t like to clean their parents’ doodoos.

[–] pr0sp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I will be honest, if I should do it, I don't think I would last a lot, I am thinking in escaping on that future...

[–] TeamAssimilation@infosec.pub 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No one should have to. Most of us have decades to prepare for our old age, it’s unfair to place that burden on your children.

That being said, I love my parents, and even if they are not expecting us to nurse them, I am prepared to hire a nurse to take care of them if needed.

I also want to avoid cleaning doodoos if possible.

[–] pr0sp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

See, the problem is, I'm a middle age man, unemployed and poor. So yeah, pretty fcked up here...

[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (6 children)

I think the key to this scheme working, however, is that you raise your children in such a selfless way that they would want to take care of you when you have nothing more to offer them. Which is to say, the only way this method works is if it’s not a β€œmethod” at all, just love.

Edit: inb4 honor culture. In the places you likely refer to, uncared-for elderly are considered a great dishonor. But also in these places, differences in social infrastructure and the parameters of personal finance significantly augment the decision. In short, it’s still a net cost of time and resources to raise a child, a balance that can only be paid by love.

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[–] mastod0n@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

At 35 I got my third!

...27" curved screen with 144Hz and HDR...

[–] M137@lemmy.world 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (11 children)

Here in Sweden I'm experiencing this with both older and younger generations. I know no one my age that has a kid, but so many younger generations have at least one. My little sister has two, and most of her friends do too. It's weird.

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 11 points 2 days ago

My little sister has two, and most of her friends do too. It's weird.

I suppose that makes sense. Support has gotten much stronger, in the last decade or two, for using multiple monitors.

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

that's wild. i wonder why the younger gen had that shift. how does that difference affect you? do you have kids? where do you feel left out?

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[–] SuperSpruce@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

I already have 2 monitors (including my laptop screen because I'm primarily on laptop) but recently I tried using Google Earth on a desktop with a fast i7-13700 and a 1440p monitor and it was so immersive. If each pixel was 100m, I could see 256km, all with minimal hiccups.

It reminded me I want a big 4k Monitor for this stuff, maybe even of TV size.

[–] missandry351@lemmings.world 41 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Me at 35: well at least I don’t live on the streets

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[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 33 points 3 days ago

I took on a second, what have I done.

[–] ThatGuyNamedZeus@feddit.org 17 points 3 days ago

The boomers fucked the economy. Their mentality is "FUCK YOU! I GOT MINE!"

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Not sure if he's thinking about a second monitor or a second smoke.

Why not both? I haven't seen that taco girl meme in a decade or so.

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[–] FabledTurtle@feddit.nl 11 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Ahh the PG32UCDM! This is best panel I have ever seen, I love mine but the only downside is when it's off the coil whine is crazy loud, almost louder than my system.

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