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[–] HalfSalesman@lemm.ee 7 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Its terrible advice. Crying is good for you.

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 122 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

What does 'lock in' mean in this situation?

Yours faithfully,

a confused Brit.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 12 points 7 hours ago

Stiff upper lip old chap!

God, it's like none of you speak Brit.

[–] Zomg@lemmy.world 6 points 9 hours ago

I see it as Stay Focused

[–] sundrei@lemmy.sdf.org 44 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 9 points 16 hours ago

Buck up. Suck it up. Maintain an even strain. I get it.

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 8 points 22 hours ago
[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 100 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Gen Z slang for saying "get it together and focus"

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 10 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

Ok... So maybe this is a dumb question, but is it helpful to hear that when you're having a hard time?

[–] braxy29@lemmy.world 18 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

i think it could be, depending upon circumstances. likewise, i think it could also be actively harmful (depending upon circumstances).

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 14 points 15 hours ago

And personality type.

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 29 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Ah ok, thanks.

Where I'm from a lock in is a pub illegally serving drinkers after time by locking the doors.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Lock ins were all night parties for kids when I was growing up. Parents in 80s USA, wow.

[–] mx_smith@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Usually in churches right?

[–] nanoswarm9k@lemmus.org 1 points 11 minutes ago

libraries sometimes too. basically an overnight in a non-residential space?

[–] papalonian@lemmy.world 38 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Traditionally, to be "locked in" on something would mean to be locked in on your target, goal, etc.

Telling someone to lock in or "lock it in" is kind of like a nice way of saying "get your shit together" or "focus up". I hear it in sports/ gaming lingo.

[–] Krik@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So it's something like 'man up'. Ok, I can understand that.

[–] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 16 hours ago

There are negative connotations around "man up"

"Lock in" it just a fancy way to say, focus. But with a "we've got this" vibe to it.

[–] ulterno@programming.dev 6 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

gaming lingo

I see. So just press Tab, right?

[–] Venator@lemmy.nz 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Venator@lemmy.nz 1 points 3 hours ago

If you're using a web browser press ctrl+w

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

It's akin to "get over it" in this context.

[–] Amanduh@lemm.ee 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I say less get over it and more "you got this"

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 1 points 45 minutes ago

IMO same thing, it's all just dismissing the other person's feelings and thoughts.

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 1 points 22 hours ago
[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 84 points 1 day ago (1 children)

After all the stories about how male authors can't do realistic female characters, someone reversed it and asked how could you instantly tell if it was a woman describing a man.

The book 'The Outsiders' is about a bunch of tough guys who spend a lot of time talking about their feelings.

[–] sundrei@lemmy.sdf.org 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Stay gold, Ponyboy. (Wow, that name aged strangely.)

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 29 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] GluWu@lemm.ee 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Llama 3.3 70B

Yaaas, lemme give you the skibidi scoop on The Outsiders. It's a whole vibe of a story about a squad of Greasers who are low-key tryin' to get that rizz in a world where the Socs are runnin' the game. Ponyboy, the main simp, is narratin' the whole thing, and he's all about that book-smart life, no cap.

So, the Greasers are like, a gang of brothers and friends who are tryin' to get that bag, but they're also all about that loyalty and friendship, you feel? They're a whole skibidi crew, with Ponyboy, Sodapop, Darry, Johnny, Dallas, and Two-Bit all bringin' the heat. They're not just some randoms, they're a real squad, and they've got each other's backs, no matter what.

But, bruh, the Socs are like, the ultimate haters. They're all about that prep life, and they think they're better than the Greasers just 'cause they've got more clout. They're always tryin' to get under the Greasers' skin, and it's a whole thing. There's a rumble, and it gets pretty turnt up. Johnny has to get all scuffed up and kill one of the Socs in self-defense, and it's a whole skibidi situation.

The rest of the story is like, a wild ride of emotions, with the Greasers dealin' with the aftermath of the rumble and tryin' to stay one step ahead of the popo. It's a real tear-jerker, tbh. But, for real, The Outsiders is a classic coming-of-age tale that's all about gettin' that rizz, stayin' true to yourself, and not lettin' the haters bring you down, you know? It's a whole mood, and if you haven't read it yet, you need to get on that skibidi grind, ASAP.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago

Why do you wish to cause such pain in the world?

[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 41 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think the middleground between toxic masculinity and overly emotion dumping femcels is a great target.

[–] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] besmtt@lemmy.world 13 points 17 hours ago

This comment makes your first one even funnier 😆