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I didn't mean for this post to cause a bunch of arguing in the comments =(

I thought this was just some gallows humor (e.g. "Everything's lovely except that I have to fear for my safety all the time") type of shitpost that sounded similar to comments I've heard from women irl a lot.

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[–] RedStrider@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (4 children)

damnn these comments are why i don't recommend this platform to anyone i know.

i think i'm going to change instances after this.

[–] eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

Blahaj.zone is good!

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[–] Ajel@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Come to Finland, safe to walk at night

[–] bonus_crab@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

finland has a homocide rate of about 1 per 100k.
Countries are generally lower than cities, but some cities for context :

Hong Kong : 0.29
Glendale CA : 0.52
Tampere, Finland : 2.2
Arlington TX: 4.8
Los Angeles CA : 10.3
Albequerqe NM : 21.3
Washington DC : 31.85
Flint MI : 70.7
Tijuana MX : 95.9

[–] Jyek@sh.itjust.works 1 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

Maybe I'm too tired or dumb to understand this... But 1 per 100k what? Is this successes per 100k attempts? Is it murderers per 100k people? 1 homicide per 100k human interactions? Maybe a citation would help me to understand the statistic you are referring to. It's not that I don't believe the sentiment of this comment but I really don't know what the figures mean here so I can't meaningfully gauge what each number means for the safety of a city.

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[–] CanadianCarl@sh.itjust.works 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Why is Washington DC so high?

[–] FuzzyDog@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

All the whistleblowers probably lol

[–] i_love_FFT@jlai.lu 12 points 1 day ago

By "night", you mean the perpetual night in winter?

[–] Transtronaut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)
[–] Kiwi_fella@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's Norwegian, I think.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Hey hey. No hogging the mythos bro. We have our peikkos as well.

https://fi.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peikko

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[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 50 points 1 day ago (9 children)

Random woman: I like late night walks, but I'm scared for my safety.

This thread for some reason: YOU DON'T THINK MEN GET SCARED? MURDERED!?

Like, chill. Yes, men can absolutely be murdered/hurt walking alone. But are we really going to sit here and act like women are making up their concerns/grievances out of spite? For some reason, if anyone mentions a general concern/issue related to women's experiences with men, some people trip over themselves to say how it's actually not an issue and how it's actually so much worse for men. If I'm listening to a male DV victim and I go, "well, actually, women are more likely to be victims of DV. You know, it's actually not even an issue for you. Here, look at these numbers that prove that women are the victims. Do you not mention it because you hate women? Why are you trying to ruin our spotless reputation as delicate flowers that can do no wrong with your lies", you would think I was nuts, and for good reason.

[–] starelfsc2@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I mean these comments are pretty insane but cmon you know what you said is not equivalent, this meme uses othering language and people got mad at it because it groups them with people they likely despise. Why can't we just be on the same team? If I say "being outgoing is a vibe too bad women love emotionally abusing people" I sincerely hope you wouldn't defend that.

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[–] eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 66 points 1 day ago (19 children)

My god, I am a cis male and I don't feel threatened or targeted by this. I think there's a reason why certain men feel attacked.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago (6 children)

I should have expected to see a bunch of whining when I opened the thread.

I'm also cis male and I am worried about strange men coming near me at night when no one is around. Because, you know, muggers and shit. They murder sometimes too. Does that make you whiny little bitches' hurt feelings go away?

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[–] lurklurk@lemmy.world 33 points 1 day ago (3 children)

If you see something like this and get angry at women, you have a problem.

At best it's a problem with reading comprehension. At worst, you're worried that things like this could get in the way of your murdering-women hobby.

[–] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 26 points 1 day ago (11 children)

My problem with this post is exactly the same I have with any broad assumptions over a poorly defined group: taken as fact, they're false.

Of course it's meant to make a point, and a very valid one. But I'll point out that there are many places in the world where a young woman can go out for a walk at night without fear of never being seen again, and it's not because there's fewer men, so perhaps we should focus on the conditions to achieve this?

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[–] Surp@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)
[–] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Although statistically, it should be males being afraid to walk home at night.

https://www.statista.com/statistics/1388777/murder-victims-in-the-us-by-gender/

[–] meliaesc@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Still from other men though, yes?

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[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Wow these comments are a trash fire.

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[–] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 18 points 1 day ago

Don’t criticize if you haven’t murdered yet.

This why we can't have nice things

[–] nthavoc@lemmy.today 9 points 1 day ago

It's ok "The Picard Maneuver" everyone has their shitpost day .... wait where am I again??

[–] Sniatch@feddit.org 35 points 1 day ago (18 children)

Reading the comments make me feel like I'm reading 4chan. How are people getting triggered by that post

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[–] sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 day ago (5 children)

There’s not enough education about psychopaths and the dangerous subtypes like dark-triad psychopathy.

I only learned about it in my mid twenties.

If we taught about it there could be prevented a lot of harm.

If you don’t know about it chances are that you always ask yourself „how could someone do This?!“

Simply because they have characteristics that are so far away from your world of feelings and perception of social stuff that you are incapable of understanding it unless you get informed, at least this was my situation.

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