this post was submitted on 18 Jan 2025
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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.

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I cannot repost what Flying Squid was posting here, because it involved highly disturbing and dangerous content, including:

Content WarningGraphic content, harassment, self-harm, and suicidal ideation, which I reported immediately.

While this behavior is shocking, it’s not completely out of left field, as members of this community and platform will already be familiar with their behavior. Flying Squid has long been regarded as one of the least productive and most problematic mods on all of Lemmy, often picking fights and abusing their mod privileges. I view this change as a positive step for Squid, .world, and Lemmy as a whole.

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[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 hour ago

If this was in the thread about unsettling facts he was explaining his pain condition which actually is referred to a suicide disease. Given the outrage some people have against him I imagine some people saw the opportunity to harass him about it.

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 5 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Im on Lemmy far more than I'd like to admit. Im always so confused when I see Squid hate. Ive never seen him say anything that's not equal to what the other person is saying.

I can't even see this "episode".

I think there are people that take it waaaay too seriously when they see someone else is a mod. Mods are just you and me, but they have a more active role in whatever community. You can be a mod anytime you'd like. Simply create a community and voila! You are now a hated person.

Ive been banned from multiple places and couldn't care any less about who banned me, or who the mods are. Grow up and chill out.

Anywhoo that's my 2 crumbs. Enjoy the rest of your weekend everyone!

[–] UniversalMonk@sh.itjust.works -3 points 17 hours ago

Im on Lemmy far more than I’d like to admit.

My friend, I'm with you. And I actually get called troll and a bot, because "no one could be on Lemmy that much!!" Um what? I get accused of being a bot and I don't think I'm even on a lot. lol

Ive been banned from multiple places and couldn’t care any less about who banned me, or who the mods are. Grow up and chill out.

100 percent this.

Unless someone is posting something illegal, advocating violence/threats, or is doxxing, I think ANY and ALL bans are lame and come from power-hungry losers.

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

What is the point of this post, when there's no actual details as to what was posted? The key images seem to have been deleted off server, and without that it's extremely difficult to pick up the context.

The modlog shows the conversation. The person in question seems to have a breakdown and offers to commit suicide on stream for someone who they claim want them dead.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Because of the content of the offending material it’s really hard to put the full info in a post without breaking terms of service. You are welcome to make your own post if you feel you can do better! :)

No, I have no idea what the context is. Hence my comment, because this is all drama without any info.

[–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 37 points 2 days ago (13 children)

Looked up the modlogs. What the actual fuck.

That said, this whole episode and the comment deletions with the "we can't share this" reasons kinda show how Lemmy is better than Reddit in that modlogs are public.

I find it great that mods can't outright delete stuff, only hide it. It lets them do the job of cleaning up convos of spam and trolls without the unchecked power aspect to it.

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[–] gregor@gregtech.eu 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

May I have a link to the modlog?

[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

https://sopuli.xyz/modlog

Filter by user, then you can search within that.

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Both of them are fucking insane. To devote this much energy to weirdos on the internet is deranged. They both need to devote their energy to better things, as evidenced by the fact that I had to press "show context" on their comment thread so many times I lost patience. I thought everyone on Lemmy was better than this. I dont care what the original cause of the disagreement was at this rate because EVERY step of the way, one of them couldve turned on do not disturb or gone to an alt account or SOMETHING. If either of you are seeing this, you can do better. Flying Squid specifically? Threatening suicide is the number one way to look immature (of every kind), especially over a stranger on the internet. Do. Better.

Edit: If someone could give a kind description of what the drama was even all about, I'd appreciate it. I can't bear to dig through either of their histories.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 23 points 2 days ago (30 children)

And the sick thing is we have been CALLING THIS GUY OUT FOREVER. The .world admins are ABSOLUTELY partially at fault for this for letting this user have the power they have had for so fucking long. Sorry for shouting I’m upsetti. 🙃

+1 to your edit though. The content was so vile and triggering, I was not up to the task. So, fair warning to anyone who wants to further investigate a case where every party is so obviously in the wrong. Tread carefully.

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[–] catloaf@lemm.ee 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm fine with looking at this stuff. It seems FS is having a mental health episode, and this is the result. It's not drama.

[–] fxomt@lemm.ee 9 points 2 days ago (4 children)

FS does have BPD if i recall. I'm no professional on BPD, but this might be related.

I honestly feel bad for him, i never hated him but it must be tiring for an entire community to hate you, while you're already depressed; and then shit like this happens.

I hope he's okay.

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[–] catloaf@lemm.ee 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm not celebrating, the guy is threatening suicide, and posting pictures of it. He needs to get off the Internet and seek help immediately.

I've messaged @lwreport@lemmy.world about it, I suggest you all do the same.

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