Few things:
The Deck can't support 65W charging either. It prefers, and maxes out, at a 45W charge, specifically 15V@3A. It can charge using 12/9/5V standards as well, but obviously does so slower.
5V charging is only recommended while the deck is off/sleeping as there is a batch with bad charging chips that can overheat and burn out otherwise (as it has to boost the 5V up to 7.4V and above for the battery)
Slower chargers still work even while gaming - they just extend the time it takes to drain.
If a powebank advertises mAh, it's using the nominal voltage of a single lithium cell, 3.6 or 3.7V. If they use Wh (and aren't blatant scams), then that's the only thing that matters. What you get out is always less, due to the conversion losses.
LCD has a 40Wh battery, OLED has 50Wh. Get at least 20% more if you truly want a full charge.
The deck has power passthrough, once it's full it uses the charger only. Sometimes this means it "refuses" to charge to 100% and instead stops just shy, that's kinda normal.