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[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

A very light one, but "Gotta have it all" attitudes in video games.

I too, remember the Gamecube days when the console didn't connect to the internet, and if there was anything to unlock in the game, it came from hitting buttons really well. We're now in the days where the glittery, shiny purple armor (with the same armor stat) sometimes costs money. And yeah, quite often it's more money than I'd say it's worth.

I guess I just don't get the people who still get a bunch of "cool" things in the game, but still feel angsty and frustrated because they don't have everything - because they haven't completely cleared their minimap of every objective, gotten a platinum achievement, or grabbed that one pointless thingy that only shows up through RNG.

I tend to experience a "majority" of games that I enjoy, and that already is enough to absorb a lot of my time. For games that have DLC content, I might buy one or two skins I like, and still spend less in total, inflation-adjusted, than I would on one disc back on my gamecube.

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[–] Anissem@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Handshaking. We’ve both touched our crotch recently, let’s not

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I hope you've washed your hand since the last time you've touched down there.

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[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

But what if I want to touch your crotch?

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[–] critical@reddthat.com 9 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Kissing. Why? What's the point of it? What's the appeal?

[–] Subtracty@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Do you mean making out? A quick kiss as a sign of affection makes sense to me. Locking lips and moving your tongues around? Weird. Maybe I'm doing it wrong, but if you are doing something that intimate, there are a lot more fun things to be doing.

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[–] cmbabul@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

So at least for me it’s as simple as, it feels really good and creates an intimacy between the parties involved even if it’s fleeting

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 6 points 1 week ago

It's intimate. It signals interest. Often you get to touch other parts of their body, too. Some people are good kissers and have the appropriate amount of forcefulness/submission for each other.

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[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Watching reading videos.

I also enjoy these, but what on earth is that about? We have videos of someone's face telling a story, we have videos of things happening for us to see (real and fake), why are stories read aloud while the words appear on the screen so interesting?

Also, we have access to the websites where these stories are coming from. This is the part that does make sense to me, I often miss those certain comments that make the best stories... So it's like a best of the best compilation to watch the reading videos.

But still, why? Why is a reading video the preferred way to find these cherry picked posts and comments from Reddit and Tumblr. Wouldn't a Best Of collection of screenshots or reposts do that job?

[–] deepfriedchril@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

In a similar vein, reaction videos. I don't understand why anybody wants to watch somebody watch a video and do over the top "reactions".

[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

That one makes more sense to me, when someone is prone to para-social relationships, it's a way to make fake internet friends. We are meant to get to know people around us by how they react to things, so this type of video is meant to exploit that

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[–] 7uWqKj@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Most of them

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Why people use comic sans

(Don't come at me, dyslexic people)

[–] ReginaPhalange@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I have no problem communicating with people through verbal means, but I don't get body language beyond the obvious (e.g. smiling). I mean, I get why people do it but I don't get how people do it. Generally this isn't a big deal but it does make dating really frustrating. I can communicate my own interest indirectly through verbal innuendo, but if the other person is doing anything non-verbal then I'll miss it.

[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (25 children)

I'm going to be the 'tenth dentist' here and say eating spicy food.

I understand that eventually people build a tolerance so it hurts less but I can't comprehend being willing to even reach that point, especially since it's still not completely pain free I have been told.

Those I've asked say it's a really good flavor, but to me that sounds like being willing to eat a handful of broken glass (assuming no long term damage) as long as it tastes good. There are other foods that taste good and don't hurt, not even slightly.

[–] dotslashme@infosec.pub 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

For me, eating spicy food calms me down. I suffer from anxiety and eating spicy food allows me to exist only in the here and now. I am of course not saying that everyone who eat spicy food is anxious, it is only my personal preference.

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[–] TheChargedCreeper864@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago (10 children)

Having or liking pets. Pictures of then I can see the appeal of, but the living beings are annoying at best or downright scary.

Never grew up with them, was always silently judged for being afraid of my classmates' pets if I came over

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

I'm the total opposite. If I'm not surrounded by animals, I feel lost. I grew up on farms, so it's natural for me to be among critters. I have quite the menagerie of my own. 2 dogs, 2 cats, and 10 ducks. I also informally adopted a horse, but I don't pay for her bills. I just buy her things she deserves like a winter blanket and treats and other things like that.

[–] kat_angstrom@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

One of the cats that I've been lucky enough to know in my life was quite simply the kindest, most lovable soul who has ever walked upon this Earth.

Everyone who met her loved her, and everyone she met, she loved.

Her heart was unaware of the existence of hatred, or cruelty, or guile, and she breathed the air of this world for 12 years having never experienced any of those feelings.

I promise you: there are connections that you can make with animals that can change the shape of your heart and the course of your life. It's fine and no biggie if you never want to or get to experience that, but just know: some of the most beautiful hearts you might ever meet just happen to be animals. :)

[–] Fridgeratr@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I got a tiny terrier/Chihuahua mix dog last year and she is the best thing that's happened to me in a long time. She is so adorable and funny and playful, and makes me look forward to coming home. She loves wrestling with her toys, and she sleeps next to me just about every night. She also helps me get outside and go on walks more.

How could I not like that??

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