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It's so bad that my fiancΓ©e has some bras that say she's a B cup and others that says she's a D cup. In order to go bra shopping, you have to actually try them on to find out if they fit.

If I had to try on underwear to see if they fit, I might not bother with underwear at all!

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[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago

The cup size SHOULD be the difference in inches between the circumference below the breast and circumference around the breast.

3" difference would be a C cup

5" would be DD.

Why they double up some letters and not others, I couldn't tell you. πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ

My ex used to sell underwear.

Now but I had my suspicions considering the trend with women's clothing.

[–] Coreidan@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

This is the case with all clothing.

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[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Most of the bras that my girlfriend gets fits on her first try, although she does tend to prefer sister sizes over her real size. If your girlfriend is having issues with bras fitting, it might be worthwhile to read up on how bra sizes are actually calculated and do a measurement yourself. Funny enough, most girls don't seem to know how the bra size system works either and they just get their sizes through trial and error, which seems like what has happened here.

The letter by itself is fundamentally meaningless. A 32D is equivalent to a 34B! And most girls severely underestimate their actual size. What would colloquially be called a B or C is actually an E

[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I don't think you know how the bra size system works. The number is the size measured underneath the breasts. The letter is the cup size determined as a the difference between the measurements across and underneath the breasts.

Therefore no way is 32D equivalent to 34B. Or at least it shouldn't be equivalent, but manufacturers don't respect the standard, so the equivalence is not impossible in some cases. It's really super inconsistent.

Also breasts can have different shapes and can be placed closer or further appart, which makes finding a fitting bra very hard for some people.

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

32 + 4 = 36

34 + 2 = 36

Am I missing something? Barring some extremely stupid math error, I don't see how I'm incorrect

[–] Reyali@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You’re close! Both a 34B and a 32D would have the same measurement around their bust, but the bust size alone can’t be used to determine bra size. The rule is to increase band size by 1 increment (which is 2”) and reduce cup size by 1 increment (the letter) to maintain the same volume.

The volume of a 32D is the same as a 34C.

[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Exactly, bust size is very nice, but it doesn't speak about the torso shape. And shape is what determines, whether a bra fits.

[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

You can add numbers correctly, but why the hell would you do that?

Adding cup size to band size is a bit like buying pants and adding leg size to waist size. One measure cannot compensate for another.

A woman with band size 32 measures 32 inches around her torso underneath her breasts. That's the number she needs, or else the bra is going to be too loose or too tight under the breasts.

A woman with small breasts and large chest cannot buy a bra with tighter band size that she wouldn't be able to put around her chest and compensate with bigger cups. That would mean she would have to leave the bra open in the back and wear it as a strange kind of napkin with huge cups hanging loosely on her small breasts, leaving a large room above them.

The same goes for a woman with large breasts and thin chest. If she bought a bra with bigger band size and compensated with smaller cup size, it would be very loose around her chest and there would be two funny little cups resting on the top of her much larger breasts.

I'm taking it into caricature territory to make it easier to imagine, but even if the differences in size are not that big, it's kind of what it actually feels like for a woman.

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[–] EngineerGaming@feddit.nl 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I don't see how most men would even find that out. Underwear is too intimate of a topic to open up about to the opposite sex.

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[–] TomMasz@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

It was a long time ago that I realized that women’s clothing sizing was largely fiction. Trying to buy clothing for a girlfriend or (later) my wife based on the tag of something they already owned was an exercise in futility.

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Around 19, I’d say. 42 now.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 5 points 2 days ago

They're definitely defined differently between some countries. Japanese cup sizes are different to US ones

[–] _bcron_@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

I just learned today since I've never been compelled to look up any sort of conversion chart, but I had a hunch because dress/pants sizes are all over the place. One brand's mostly-honest 12 is another brand's flattering 4, shit like that

[–] noxy@yiffit.net 7 points 2 days ago

I'm gay, so current age I guess

[–] rtxn@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'm both fat and tall. None of my fucking clothes have consistent sizes that fit. I'm not the least bit surprised that the clothing industry's greatest minds were defeated by breasts.

[–] DragonsInARoom@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago
[–] Adudethatis@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago

Grade 9- girlfriend at the time was "blessed" so to speak. Learned e women have a much more difficult time finding bras and underwear that "work" than most men do.

[–] Makeitstop@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I really want a law that requires clothing sizes to include actual measurements. And it's insane that I would have to specify that these measurements must be accurate, but the clothing industry has made lying about sizes the norm.

There shouldn't be anything preventing me from figuring out women's bra sizes with a tape measure aside from the fact that I don't know them and they probably don't want a stranger obsessively measuring their boobs.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I really want a law that requires clothing sizes to include actual measurements.

Men's pants are sized based on the number of inches around the waist and the inseam. The inseam is stupid because it ignores the height from the waist to the crotch so relaxed fitting jeans will have a shorter inseam than a regular fit. I'm sure it is because it was standardized when higher waisted jeans and overalls and that kind of stuff was popular.

But it doesn't matter any more because the waist sizes can be off by a few inches anyway. It was literal, then became kind of close. Not as bad as women's clothing, but it is brand specific depending on how hard they lean into vanity sizing.

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