Mums biopsy results came back negative. Given what we knew going in, I was expecting that to be the case, but good to have it confirmed.
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Yep, it's feels a lot better when you get that confirmation. Congrats!
Thanks. Hoping it's a turning point, a catalyst for her to finally stop smoking, and make other positive changes in her life.
That's awesome news, congrats!
Appreciate it! It's sure a load off.
I just got offered a new job after rage quitting a really bad one. I'll be working with at-risk kids in a group home, basically a low security facility for kids who have either had run-ins with the law and need a second chance or who just don't have anywhere else to go. I'm excited, for once I feel like I'm going to be doing work that's actually important and not just making some wealthy idiot wealthier.
Congrats! That sounds like actually meaningful work.
Doing something important in your profession has a certain value that money won't fulfill. Congrats!
I mean, the money's not bad either 🤣 so I don't have to worry so much about Christmas presents now
My SO works from another continent from time to time, he has been gone for a month now but today he told me that he's going to be home for christmas. My kid is going to be over the moon!
That is great! You're not gonna make the kid wait are you?😆
It is! We were expecting him back in January.
No of course not. They deserve to know the truth and share the joy.
I got a job after an 11 month job search. I only had 2 interviews in that whole time.
Wow, 2 interviews in 11 months is rough. Last year it took me 5 months, I'd say around 20-30 interviews, and 6 years of experience as a dev. Congrats on the job!
Holy shit, that sounded rough. Good job sticking with it!
Met a cute guy at a bar last night and we talked for a bit. It was really refreshing and took my mind off all the shit that's been going on.
Good for you!
If you ever want good news these are some good places to start:
- https://www.goodgoodgood.co/
- https://www.positive.news/
- https://fixthenews.com/
- https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/
Stay positive, friend!
Thanks!
my kid slept the whole night last night. first time. I didn't even know what to do when I woke up and no one was crying.
I was lucky with both of my kids. They both started sleeping through the night relatively quick.
Good for you! Now, on to the next parenting challenge, but at least you'll be getting better sleep.
Changed my name from what some family's abusive mother gave me, got a job at Amazon, on my way to move out and never see that family again. ✂️👔
I've been focusing hard on my job, and received feedback from a C Suite Exec this week that he is impressed with my professionalism and interpersonal abilities, especially when meeting with other execs or company lawyers. He even has started coming directly to me because, quote, "Shit gets done when you're involved." This is huge to me because I'm impossibly awkward in social circles and mostly a shut-in neckbeard, but somehow it works for me at my job.
I also received recognition in the form of a beautiful glass plaque from the CEO this year, and it feels amazing.
I crawled my way up from homelessness to stability and now I'm rocking it at my job. Feels good man.
I know it's a bit taboo and perhaps unwise to put so much emphasis on your job, but it's what brings me happiness because I've struggled and fought to get to where I am now. My success has afforded me a comfortable upper-middle-class life and I'm still kind of shocked that it all came to fruition. Went from sleeping under the underpass to a penthouse condo in less than two decades.
After coming back from a year of parental leave I didn't lose my job.
My previous project came to an end just before I went on parental leave and the company couldn't secure new projects locally.
But because I was involved ipartially in a different department before, that department secured a internal budget for me as a Subject Matter Expert.
Now I'm advising on that topic and was also brought in to a big internal project, so my job is secured for some time now.
For me it's extra difficult because I moved to a different country and have a really hard time learning the language, which is a must to get a different job here.
It's always good to be valued, congrats!
You're important enough to keep around! Keep up the good work!
My wife is preggo and the baby looks healthy
Oh man congrats!
I remember when mine told me she is pregnant, I was so happy I wanted to jump!
Gave a girl anal for the 1st time today
Good job bud 👍
I just hope she asked you to do it and enjoyed it a lot. Only that can make it good news.
First time today ... meaning after that more times today?
I went to the zoo today! Didn't get very good quality pics, but putting them here anyway.
Eh, who needs quality? I took this a little over ten years ago and it still makes me laugh for some reason.
I took all my meds on time, and so did my dog.
Oh! I also baked a pizza and it was really tasty. Pup didn't get pizza, but did get oven-dried fish skins and he's really happy about that.
I was just about to leave, put my shoes on, and that’s when I remembered that I needed to take out the trash. The good thing is, I remembered that before tying the laces.
Seems like I usually remember everything once the laces have been tied, but this time was different.
Also, setting a pretty low bar for good things, so that anyone can join the conversation. 😀
Dude, that would have been a great start for my day, like, first accomplishment done! Plus it is great coming back home to a "no chore house" as we call it: No garbage to take out, no meal to cook, no toys to be picked up, no laundry to be fold, etc. I absolutely love the feeling of it.
I’m sort of dating someone.
2ish weeks ago my parents met another couple at a cocktail party and found out they had a single daughter about my age. In an extremely unsubtle attempt to set us up our families did an escape room together. Honestly, sex and dating have never been important to me. My longest relationship was a couple months long in high school, I went on maybe 3 or 4 dates in college. I went to this escape room thinking I’d make pleasantries for an hour, solve some puzzles and go home. But when I met her she was cute, and smart, and funny, and after we escaped she asked if I wanted to go with her to something else she was doing that day. We ended up spending the whole day together. And again the next weekend. I haven’t “officially” asked her out, or kissed her, or really acknowledged anything about what this is. But I have had so much fun with this badass trapeze-flying, skydiving, engineering, competitive dancing, just-so-cool woman that I can’t stop thinking about when I’ll see her next.
Don’t wait, ask her out. Nothing is worse than an opportunity missed from procrastination, and some girls have short fuses when establishing a romantic foundation with someone.
Asking her out isn’t a binding commitment for a long relationship, but it does bookmark you as an interested party.
I just quit my soul-sucking job yesterday. I'm ecstatic to not have to go and sit in that office again.
My parents, in their 70s, started receiving a guaranteed income supplement (they're Canadian). They're still poor, but finally they can afford the basics of survival without having to work full time.
It's such a huge change.
We finally have new windows and sliding glass door on our fixer-upper.
We switched my son's Pre-K for a number of reasons. Mostly because they didn't have room for him in the older class (where he belongs), but also because it was kinda trashy, kinda franchisee, and every day we dropped him off he was crying and clinging harder and harder. The new school is just some lady running something out of her house.
A friend asked him what he's thankful for last night and he said, "My new school" 😭😭
The company that lost my $3500 computer a month ago finally sent off a free replacement and it'll be here next week! Normally, they replace it with a refurbished one but since they don't have any, I'm getting a new one.
I am traveling through Greece with my girlfriend. After a nice (and exhausting) hiking route we are back in the hotel – one of the best rooms I have ever been to. She is having a shower and I am chilling over the bed. At this very moment everything feels great.
I'm finally starting to get my sense of smelling back AND went to see alpacas.
I left a company after getting laid off and surprisingly found a job before the 60-day warn notice expired.
Second day, the new company announced layoffs. Luckily, I wasn't part of it, but that has been a wild ride.
Hard to be mad in the moment when my 9 month old smiles, makes me forget about the mess for a while