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Well now this is trashy. I got permabanned from r/interstingasfuck for posting a comment in r/MensRights that was an attempt to correct some misinformation. I've never made a post in either subreddit and that was the only comment I've ever made in the MensRights subreddit. But r/interstingasfuck's bot decided to permaban me even though I've not broken any rules.

The ban

The single comment I've ever made on r/MensRights

Also I tried to make a post on r/MensRights (would have been my first post there) on me getting banned for making a comment and the mods there blocked it. You would think they'd love the chance to show they are victims of discrimination and censorship.

Man Reddit is trash.

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[–] Nima@leminal.space 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

mensrights is a pretty terrible place, honestly.

[–] parpol@programming.dev 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

How? What is so terrible about it? To me it looks like a place for men to vent about unfair treatment.

I am looking at the threads and one guy was sent to jail after consentual sex, another thread was about someone who was taught in school that "men and boys should sacrifice their lives for others".

These are topics that deserve discussion but more importantly they deserve to be conveyed without fear of bans from one of the biggest entertainment communities by some misandrist automod.

Or is there a "proper" subreddit for these kind of discussions that I don't know about?

[–] Nima@leminal.space 6 points 3 weeks ago

oh I wholeheartedly agree that these are valid topics, it's just that mensrights doesn't do that.

they are just openly misogynistic. and extremely toxic and shitty towards women. i tried to join a while ago in support of men's rights. i was endlessly sexualized, mocked, and insulted. extremely scary kind of things. threats of rape, the whole nine yards.

yes those issues are extremely important, but the subreddit devolved into an incel misogynist hellhole. it's toxicity is pretty well known.

[–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 0 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I only go there for entertainment purposes. But that is no reason for a ban. I didn't break any of their listed rules in r/interstingasfuck.

[–] Draconic_NEO@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Here's a good tip, block all moderation bots on Reddit. That stops them from doing actions they aren't entitled to as moderators like DMing you or checking post history outside of their subreddits.

The most notorious is u/BotDefense

u/SafestBot and u/SaferBot are other commonly used ones.

Some other ones I've come across are:

These are what I would call ban-by-association bots and I recommend blocking all these and any others you come across as it'll decrease the amount of erroneous bans like this you receive on Reddit. There's no easy way to identify them reliability so look through the moderators list before posting on any given sub and block ones that seem suspicious.

Also yes I'm aware this will help spammers and trolls and I don't care, Reddit needs to die and people need to move on, spam helps loosen network effect by making it unbearable for normies, and even more unbearable for power users (the people who post the content that gets consumed). This information is way more valuable for users to counter abusive mod practices (like banning by association automatically) than it is harmful via the spam it creates as a byproduct.

[–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

We are in the era of the Dead Internet Theory. There's no point to being online just to fight bots. I've banned these accounts but I'm only on Reddit for the communities that aren't on Lemmy.

Thanks for the list.

[–] Draconic_NEO@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 weeks ago

Oh for sure. The name bot or spam defense is really a lie or doublespeak, their real purpose is anti-competition by automatically banning people who post in different subreddits. Combating spam isn't their real purpose (they just say that because you can't openly violate moderator CoC, you can only do it if you say you aren't doing it), it's making people afraid to visit competing subreddits or punish people for using subreddits the mods of the current subreddit hold a grudge against.

[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

block ~~all moderation bots on~~ Reddit

this equation can be radically simplified

[–] Nima@leminal.space -1 points 3 weeks ago

it's filled with incels and open misogynists. what entertainment is to be had?

[–] DarkThoughts@fedia.io 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Not sure why this surprises you, it's an incel subreddit. Certain places have no tolerance rules for extremist places.

[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I think (If I read it right) they're being banned for posting /r/mensrights garbage to other subs.

either way they're making poor choices on how to spend their life, ugh

[–] CaptObvious 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Honestly, what were you doing on Reddit in the first place?

[–] Eezyville@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago

Some communities are only on Reddit.

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 weeks ago

Many subreddit consider one participating in certain communities a massive red flag so this kind of situation is typical. Not PTB but questionable of there's no one indication of which subreddit are a problem

[–] Scoopta@programming.dev 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Wow, the ban just says it's for posting in MensRights and that no other context was looked at. That's silly, even if MensRights is as toxic as everyone here makes it out to be(Idk, never been there).

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 weeks ago

It's very toxic. One step be fore inceldom

[–] parpol@programming.dev 0 points 3 weeks ago

I checked that subreddit out and it says on their page that "WARNING: Some other subs have bots that will ban you if you post or comment here."

I also looked at the content and I don't see what is so toxic about that subreddit. Men's issues are extremely downplayed in today's society, so it sounds to me like r/interstingasfuck are moderated by a bunch of misandrists.