Mental Health

I was unemployed and job hunting for 1½ years. The application and interview process is ridiculously demoralizing.

My main conclusion I came to is that hardly anyone is skilled at hiring. It’s like a an afterthought and distraction from their primary competencies at work. They don’t know what to ask for, how to ask for it, or how to know if they’re getting what they asked for. I understand how it feels, but don’t let their incompetence get you down if you can help it.

In the end, I think the two biggest factors in getting hired is who you know that can give you an in, and just plain luck you’ll connect with someone who perceives you as an asset. There is almost nothing you can do about either of these. The rest of what you can do might boost your prospects a bit, but not much. But you’ve got to do them anyway.

Sorry to hear this, I sincerely hope your luck changes immediately.

Are you looking for a job in a particular industry? Maybe someone here has a connection.

Here's hoping you find success soon!

It’s really tough out there. I wish you all the best for what little it is worth as someone who was once in a different terrible place mentally.

Keep your chin up. I got laid off at the beginning of summer and just started at a new job yesterday. Just in time for my savings to fully drain after keeping us afloat

It was a tough run that almost broke me but I'm glad I kept trudging and dropping applications

Don't give up! Unlike gambling, this is something that you never lose until you give up. Just know that it's generally not because of your poor skills why you aren't getting the jobs that you're interviewed for. Sure, sometimes it's because someone else's skills are better than yours but often it's just luck, some stupidity on their end (they just "forget" to hire someone for several month) or a myriad of other reasons, most of which are not your fault.

Just assign a percentage to how likely you will move on from an interview stage... pretend it's 10% for example. If you did 10 interviews, then there is only a 34% probability that all 10 would reject you. I.e. the more you try the higher your chances.