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[–] L0rdMathias@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Do you perceive this as a brand new issue in human society?

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[–] NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

In my 36yr life it isn't any greater or lesser of a concern than it has been before, though I'm quick to think of the euphamism-treadmill as being constantly turning.

β€”To me It seems like sexuality is easy-pickings for politicians that don't want to write legislation that benefits the lower-classes. It's a big part of the "circuses" metaphor in the phrase "bread and circuses."

[–] Lemjukes@lemm.ee 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)

All of a sudden? Where have you been the last 80-100 years?

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[–] s_s@lemm.ee 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Why are people so interested in defining themselves along sexual identity and orientation in relatively recent western culture?

Why now? Why is it so different from most of human existence?

Because we are no longer facing famine. The Green Revolution has made our relationship with food so secure we no longer define ourselves in relation to it.

Throughout most of history people are farmers or ranchers or shepherds or bakers or butchers or millers.

So, we climb the Biological hierarchy of needs looking for our next characteristic that needs fulfillment.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

not even. 1950s we had this idealized version that everyone was heterosexual, owned a home and had strict gender roles.

That shit is now all blown apart. And for most folks the complexities of it all are beyond understanding.

And it cuts both ways. I don't care about other people's genders and identities, but boy they care about mine. Gotten plenty of sexist slurs from queer/trans people based on my gender and lots of shitty assumptions. I'm bi, but I 'present' as a heterosexual dudebro, and it makes non-gender conforming people angry at me for some reason, also many insecure straight men and women. Only people who don't seem to care are people who are bi, or secure in their sexuality. Way too many people feel the need to do that though.

[–] Silentiea@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I'd just like to say that I'm not defining myself at any point, I'm describing myself.

A trivial point, maybe, but there's still plenty of bigots around and the ones around me use phrases like "defining yourself" to minimize and erase lbgtq+ people's experiences.

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[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

The internet has given global voice to people that would otherwise only be able to bounce those ideas back and forth across the barbershop floor

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[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 4 points 1 month ago

Identity politics resonates with brain dead public.

We got the government we deserve.

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Because gay rights have more and more support so they decided to pick an easier target.

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