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[–] tringle@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago
[–] smollittlefrog@lemdro.id 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Women have differing tastes. Men on the other hand all like the same.

Just like many women don't like extreme muscley figures many men don't like extreme hourglass figures.

Not all women are the same. Not all men are the same either. Claiming otherwise is sexist in both cases.

[–] Crozekiel@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel like your strawman missed the point. No one claimed all men or women are the same, and literally no one said "Women have differing tastes. Men on the other hand all like the same." (or even tried to make that point)...

[–] smollittlefrog@lemdro.id 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Did I misunderstand the post?

The point seemed to be that sexualization of men and women is different because not all women like the typical sexualized ~~male~~ man (as per the example given). That being different implies that men do all like the typical sexualized woman. Which is wrong.

(edit: just realized I did a reverse menandfemales)

[–] Crozekiel@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I believe you did misunderstand the post.

The post is commenting that both men and women characters in comics are drawn for men. The male characters are aimed at the broad average male power fantasy, not a broad average sexualization that would appeal to women (the way the female characters are drawn for the broad average appeal of men).

When the woman in this comic strip draws Batman in a way that is sexually attractive to her (which is a similar broad strokes "catch as many women as possible" approach comics already use for men), the man in the comic became uncomfortable seeing it. The point is that if they drew male characters in comics with the same approach that they draw female characters, then generally men would feel as uncomfortable by it as women generally feel now.

[–] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're implying that the average women isn't attracted to a Jason Mamoa or Chris Pratt -type gymbod. Although I know not every woman is attracted to big arms and abs, it seems that most do. Hell, even straight guys can see that these dudes are hot.

[–] Lux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Imo an important point to add is that sexualized characters aren't inherently bad. It's only bad when all or nearly all characters are sexualized. I like media with hot dudes, chicks, and everyhting else, but if all characters from 1 group are sexualized, then it gets weird

[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

There was an Oglaf comic where the aliens noticed that the lobsteroid males looked like lobsters, while the lobsteroid women looked like hot human females in a sexy lobster suit. Same for the bee people, the bear people, the tree people. All the females looked like sexy humans.

They concluded that they had to team up and kill all the humans.

[–] pimento64@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's only bad when all or nearly all characters are sexualized

I will not tolerate trash talk of Golden Wind

[–] Lux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I guess I should add the caveat that if the point is that they're supposed to be sexualized, it's a different situation. I have no idea what the golden wind is, but I assume that's part of it.

[–] pimento64@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago

JoJo's Bizarre Adventure Part 5 is called Golden Wind, set in a highly exaggerated Italy in 2001.

All of these characters are men: