Also annoying though are people who think they "get it", stop listening and be interruptive after a few words, and totally miss the crucial part that comes later.

Other neurodivergent people are hard to hang out with, except for sharing our grievances in memes :-)

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 34 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I find that ND peeps are much easier to get along with.

[–] the_post_of_tom_joad@sh.itjust.works 28 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah i have realized all my friends thru the years are some kinna ND. I didn't plan it that way obviously. We NDs tend to find each other naturally

[–] wendrul@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago

Just like stand users!

[–] Aermis@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago

My wife has ADHD as well as myself. How often I'm trying to make a point by starting off on points that lead to that point, and she makes the point for me, conducts a counter argument, and wastes 30 seconds of me back pedaling to say that's not at all what I'm trying to get at.

[–] Lev_Astov@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Yes, this is a serious problem with some people. Far worse than OP's issue.

[–] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

crucial part that comes later.

Put the crucial parts first, before the fluff.

[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 29 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Sometimes context is important!

Context is important sometimes! (If you want the point first)

[–] Nyxon@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That is a beautiful bit of word play there to show a point succinctly. Love it, well done!

[–] Szyler@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The word play, Love that! Succinct point put beautifully. Well done!

[–] Nyxon@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If you are going to make a long winded statement, its not crazy to preface it with something.

[–] Robust_Mirror@aussie.zone 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

But then they think they heard the only important part already and miss the context which equally matters.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago

Its not prefacing it with a summary, its letting them know you have a point at the end they should wait for.

I actually prefer the type of conversation that goes back and forth and tangents, but there is a place for more long form cohesive ideas, and you should wait to hear it all before speaking.

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

There is a whole house of people I know like that. I visited for Labor Day, and people were constantly talking over each other. They wonder why I don't visit too often anymore.