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I cringe every time I hear another guy refer to women like this

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[–] vithigar@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

with "this person" or "a BMW driver" as a maybe-neutral-but-also-likely-male coded qualifier.

If this is "likely male coded" how exactly do you suggest referring to other drivers in a neutral way?

[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I try to use "driver" or "person".

[–] vithigar@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

How are "this person" and "a BMW driver" likely male coded while "person" and "driver" are fine? It sounds to me like you're just assuming negative intent in others, while your own use of the same words is fine because you know what you mean.

[–] Vandals_handle@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

How about other driver?