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I said I'm not looking for anything serious.
You said “was” so if you two are no longer professionally engaged and won’t be in the future, go for it!
Reach out to him and let him know you’re interested, but 100% are not looking for anything serious.
Then it’s up to him.
Remember in life the default state for interpersonal interaction is already “No.” (Meaning if you do nothing it’s like you did something, and they said “No.”) So never let the fear of “no” hold you back, because you’re already there unless you do something.
Thank you! great advice :)