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Please get therapy. I started a few years ago and I went from autistic virgin in his late 20s who had never been on a single date to guy with a girlfriend. It's never too late if you are willing to put work into yourself.
Also, even if you can't afford therapy, at least read "The Six Pillars Of Self Esteem" by Nathaniel Branden. Just skip all the parts where he talks about Ayn Rand. And do the homework at the back of the book every day if you can, once you finish reading it. That book was maybe the thing that made the biggest difference for me in changing my attitude about finding a relationship.
You're not what?
Edit: they deleted it, but OP's reply was just "I'm not unfortunately". Don't see how that's a coherent reply to my comment.
Unfortunately.
Is my guess.
It doesn't matter. I just realized that OP is that same asshole who has been making posts like this one for weeks and belligerently arguing with anyone who gives him good advice. The account creation date for the OP lines up perfectly with the last comment made by that other account ( @fookreddit69@lemm.ee ) and they share the same personal details (lives in Italy with mom, is 35, unemployed)