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Don't go to Amsterdam.
Well, it's more like we don't want them to come here.
As an American (but an immigrant), who wants to go to Amsterdam, what can I do to be mindful and not annoying?
I had a great visit there in 2013. Nearly everyone speaks English, but donβt just assume, ask (in Dutch) if they speak English. Very walkable, with pretty great transit. Lots to see just walking around. Just be a normal person and youβll be treated fine.
Tbh even if you speak Dutch, they'll just reply English. That's the weird Amsterdam behavior
This happens in a lot of countries. For me I noticed it particularly with young people in Germany, and pretty much anyone in Norway.
Can make it slightly frustrating when actively trying to learn the language by speaking with people π
I think that's kinda common in a lot of countries. If you look like you aren't from there then they will speak in English.
I dont think so. I even replied in dutch and they still continued in English. The only place that ever happened to me
Don't get really drunk or stoned and end up being obnoxious.
Try to be aware of traffic (especially bikes) and of blocking sidewalks/alleys etc. Look both ways on every lane of traffic you cross (including both bike lanes).
Try to branch out your trip from the exact center of the city (or by the train station) and don't rent an Airbnb inside the city center (they drive up local rents).
If you're standing on red bricks or red tarmac, you're probably blocking the bike lane.
If you can't see the bike lane, it's likely that you're standing in it (they aren't always marked).
As someone planning on going in a year or two, this is really good advice. Thank you.
Oh simply be polite and most of all have a sense of your surroundings/situational awareness, i.e., don't get in the way. You probably want to spend as little time in the main "downtown" area (roughly central station to the Rokin) as possible.
Although everyone under 80 years old speak near-native English (I exaggerate), you'll endear yourself by learning to say good morning, good evening, thanks, and please in Dutch and to start conversations by asking "Is English ok?" in Dutch.
Basically just don't be a jerk and the native Amsterdamers will happily take your holiday money.
don't get drunk and fall in the canal and drown when you're trying to take a piss
Don't