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I don't know how unique or widespread my personal (male) experience is, but I've always had a very difficult time noticing anything less than a blatant response.
I've discovered (in retrospect) that I have missed tons of hints, clues, and subtle responses that I have been shown over the decades. Absolutely oblivious.
And in my attempts to be a decent person, I have always treated what I perceived as a lack of interest/consent and not pushed forward.
I suspect my romantic life and even friendship circle would be much more lively had I been better able to notice many of those subtle clues.
Even now approaching my grey-hair years, I am not very good at "picking up what people are putting down" unless they are quite blatant in their intentions.
Then I guess you need to find someone who is blatant enough to help you understand.
You're not owed a girlfriend or sex.
Wow... you are assuming a helluva lot from what I wrote.
Nowhere did I even imply that I thought I was ever "owed" anything by anyone.
Don't know what your motivations are to assume that.