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[–] NuXCOM_90Percent@lemmy.zip 79 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Not really.

Onlyfans is more or less a strip club. It is not (just) about seeing titties. It is about "the fantasy". Ask any stripper and the best possible "gimmick" is to be "working my way through (grad/law/nursing/whatever) school" since that lets clients feel like they are "saving" you.

And, on a surface level, that is similar. Pop Idol better not have a boyfriend because she is a permanent virgin and blah blah blah.

But that is where it ends. Because the guy who starts getting overly possessive of a stripper/sex worker/OF model/whatever? We, as a society, think they have issues and there is usually a support structure to get them away from the person they are going to stalk.

Whereas with k-pop (and, to a somewhat lesser extent, j-pop and the like): The support structure encourages that mindset and punishes the performer for daring to ruin "the fantasy". And, as can be seen here and every other time this happens, "society" encourages that.

And... South Korea is so fucked that it makes Japan look like a good place to be a woman. Like, it is a genuine problem to the point that voice actresses have gotten "cancelled" because someone thought they made a rude gesture that insults men.

[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 24 points 7 months ago (1 children)

TBH, the strippers I've known IRL were actually doing that. One of them got a degree from a pricey art school and now is a VP at an advertising firm (she started as a photographer, moved up to graphic design, then art direction...). I'm acquainted with one that has a day job as an attorney and does it because she both enjoys it, and it pays better than most legal jobs.

[–] NuXCOM_90Percent@lemmy.zip 17 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yeah. One of my best friends literally stripped her way through law school.

But it is also just a bog standard thing to say during a lap dance or whatever. "oh, I'm just doing this until I get through veterinary school" and so forth.

[–] Zahille7@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

Whenever I went to the strip club, my mind was focused on the tittues and asses. I couldn't care less why they were stripping other than for money.

But that's just me.

[–] Mango@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

They're literally enforcing with their culture all of the shit that's bad about prostitution which we prohibit prostitution for, but without all the fun of paying for sex.