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How many times a day do you meet the love of your life? (lemy.lol)
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I have this thing where I see a random person on the street, in the store, or in the park and it makes me picture what it would be like to be together with this person, to build a house together, have pets together, live a life together. I try not to stare as I walk past and go about my day.

For minutes to hours I have this gut-punch feeling that the love of my life just walked out of the door and I'll never see them again. Soon after, when the stranger is all but forgotten I'll run into the next stranger and the cycle repeats.

Somehow I believe this is a mundane and typical thing that occurs to men, maybe to non-binary people and women too? However, I've never spoken to anyone about this in real life. So I'd like to hear your thoughts. Does this happen to you?

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[–] palebluethought@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

When I was between the ages of, I dunno, 12 and 22? All the time. Probably not at first sight though, I mean I'd usually have at least some sense of what kind of person they are. Not so much as an adult, though.