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[–] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 18 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Lol, I would've been bullied in school if I didn't have a phone. At least in later grades when phones became more popular.

[–] asdfasdfasdf@lemmy.world 25 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Coming from an era when nobody had phones, basically everyone got bullied anyway.

[–] tobbue@feddit.de 26 points 8 months ago

This, tbh. You don't get bullied for something, you get bullied because bullies want to bully.

[–] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

In my experience it's usually the ones that stick out and aren't seen as "cool". Not even nerds, just people that are different in one way or another.

[–] asdfasdfasdf@lemmy.world -1 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 8 points 8 months ago (1 children)

No? Not everyone got bullied when I went to school, and I'm sure it's not very different nowadays.

[–] asdfasdfasdf@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago (2 children)

My point is that everyone is "different in one way or another", so we're all fair game. That might be getting bullied in front of everyone for being a stereotypical nerd, or it may be another clique talking about you behind your back for dressing preppy and hanging out with the "cool kids".

[–] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 1 points 8 months ago

Yeah, fair enough

[–] EngineerGaming@feddit.nl 1 points 8 months ago

I think it depends the most on whether the child has a group of friends or not.

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I didn't have a phone until I was 16 despite most of my peers getting one around 12/13. I didn't get bullied for not having a phone, in fact no one really made any comments on it other than an occasional "wow, I couldn't live without my phone!"

Granted, this was over ten years ago, and was probably the first generation of teenagers where cell phones were near-ubiquitous. I don't know if kids nowadays would get bullied just for not having a phone, but it would severely limit their social interactions. Riding your bike and knocking at your friends' doors randomly, or going to the mall and expecting you'll find some people you know there, these are from a bygone era.

[–] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 5 points 8 months ago

I had a phone, but it was an old one, so people made fun of that.