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    [–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 23 points 8 months ago (1 children)

    Personally I feel like if you have to ask, I'd lean towards caution and not sending it. I mean, best case she gets a chuckle out of it, worse case it kinda creeps her out.

    If you're unambiguously an ally and she has seen proof of/knows this, most trans people I know would be fine with it. I'm not sure the risk/reward is worth it though (and tbh I'd say the same for sending memes to any coworkers one's not on more familiar terms with)

    [–] Fal@yiffit.net 2 points 8 months ago

    Personally I feel like if you have to ask, I’d lean towards caution and not sending it.

    That's exactly why I don't plan to =].

    most trans people I know would be fine with it

    I should have been more explicit with my question, as that's kind of what I was getting at. If most trans people are comfortable being identified as trans even if it's in a neutral/positive context