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Hi all. Apologies if this is not allowed here. I know people out there are struggling, but I just want to share my good news with someone.

It's a big milestone of accomplishment in my life, but I feel weird just telling family members or my online friends about it. The only other people who know are my coworkers because we all got the same raise. Money doesn't go as far nowadays due to crazy inflation post COVID and my area has higher cost of living than where I grew up, but I'm still very happy about this. I remember back when I used to only make minimum wage. All those years of schooling eventually made their way back to me. I'll never make as much money as someone like a doctor, but it's definitely enough for me to live comfortably as a single person.

Anyway, I'll delete this in a bit (or sooner if it gets removed by a mod), but I hope you guys out there have a good weekend.

Edit: Thank you guys very much :)

Edit 2: Jeez there are so many more comments than I expected. You guys are so nice!!

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[–] dingus@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I forget what my mortgage rate is but I think it's somewhere between 5.8-6.8%. I'll have to look it up.

My wanting to eventually pay the mortgage off earlier is to dramatically decrease my monthly bills and make it easier to save and easier to put money in my pocket each month. I'm not really keen on dumping all of my money into something like an IRA. I discovered recently that high yield savings accounts are a thing and I'm much more comfortable with that. Granted, mine is only like 4.3%.

While I do need to put more into retirement and do plan to contribute more to my 401k, I don't really want to go ham over putting every penny I have into retirement. Life is uncertain and you really don't know how long you'll live, even if you try your best to do a healthy life. It's all about balance between enjoying the now and planning for the future, and not putting too much emphasis on one or the other. You don't want to live like you're homeless only to die in a car accident and never get to enjoy what you've worked for.

[–] ngdev@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Absolutely! I grapple with that all the time. I love having fun and traveling and having cool stuff. It's fun having some money you're not afraid to spend.

You deserve it, you're the one who got yourself to where you're at. At the end of the day do what's right for you, just maybe spend a little bit less over the years and instead put it toward the end game.

As time goes on, sitting on ass collecting interest and being able to live off that interest comfortably will be awesome, and if you were able to live it up the whole time is priceless. Treat your now self and future self, but future self likely won't regret now self traveling etc. (so long as you're not doing illegal tax evasion and damaging your body long term lol)