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[–] xan1242@lemmy.ml 98 points 11 months ago (3 children)

This “the alternatives are great” gaslighting stuff has got to stop. We’ve all tried it and we’re all still here, for good reason. Reddit sucks but the fediverse sucks even more.

Oh the irony in this comment... The only person being gaslit is yourself.

And secondly - a lot of people don't know that you can now block instances individually and that defederation/blocking is not really that big of a deal anymore.

[–] mutant_zz@lemmy.world 53 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Reading the comments in that thread made me realise how little I miss Reddit. The sub is RedditAlternatives and there's a whole lot of people in there whinging that people are talking about alternatives to Reddit. Lemmy has it's problems, but Reddit is toxic AF.

[–] MBM@lemmings.world 26 points 11 months ago

I guess you could say the people who actually moved away from Reddit aren't on /r/RedditAlteratives anymore

[–] mcmoor@bookwormstory.social 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I don't know what current Reddit looks like but old reddit is still irreplaceable so far.

[–] xan1242@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 months ago

People on Reddit are simply too addicted to the content. That's the only real reason I can see what could bind someone to the platform. It all boils down to that - content. (And you probably don't need me to repeat the usual "for more content we need more users" lol)

The old reddit is purely a technical thing at this point. I believe in the popular opinion that it's a matter of time before it gets shut down.

I've personally been a user of it on Apollo and Relay and to me it was the way to use it. Rarely have I interacted with the website. So I imagine it's a similar thing with the old mode users.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

a lot of people don't know that you can now block instances individually and that defederation/blocking is not really that big of a deal anymore.

I'll reshare my thoughts on this from a comment I left in a completely different context a few days ago:

My question about that option is: what effect does it have? My understanding is that if we defederate, they can see our content and reply to it, but only other users on their instance will see those replies.

Does an individual blocking them do the same thing? If so, perfect.

But if, as I suspect, it still allows them to see and reply to comments and everyone else in the fediverse can see it, I cannot support it as a solution to dealing with the kind of bad faith interactions which would make me want to block or defederate an instance. It allows them to continue peddling their rubbish without even enabling the person they’re cribbing off of to respond.

[–] fine_sandy_bottom@aussie.zone 1 points 11 months ago

Yeah, I'm so weary of this argument but you're dead right.

If I and all my neighbours close our curtains then we won't see all the garbage, rats, dead bodies, and other refuse piling up in our street, and then congratulate ourselves at the lovely community we share.

It's absurd. As though everyone expects that corporate encroachment into the fediverse is going to come with a big sign that says "threads" or some such.