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- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
- Gender Spectrum // Resources for youth, parents and family, educators, mental health professionals and faith leaders.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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It depends on your hair.
"New" follicoles can show themselves if you take laser (can also happen on t blockers, but not as likely), and that just means it will take more sessions.
laser is the second longest lasting hair removal.
it works best on dark hair on light skin, but there are diodes that should work with dark skin and light hair as well. If you have orange hair or multicoloured hair strands then you're fucked - welcome to my club 🥲
Basically if you can, then laser is a great way to reduce dysphoria.
I wouldn't phrase it quite that way.
Laser hair removal is permanent. The issue is that it's not 100% effective. It doesn't matter how many times you laser, some hairs always survive, and they will keep growing. But the ones it does zap stay zapped.
Electrolysis has a better hit rate for making hair follicles stay down, but if you've got dark hair, it's much slower to receive electrolysis than it is to receive laser.
I've only ever had laser hair removal on my face, the tiny amount of hairs that remain are manageable with tweezers.