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I don’t think anyone below the age of 50 has seriously believed in “happy wife, happy life”. It’s very much a boomer mentality of “pick someone you don’t love and suffer through the relationship forever”
I did for a bit but the years went by and sure she's happy, but am I?
It's been 5 years and we're still together.
I think we both know it's time.
It's rough, man. Kids.
My dreams are screaming at me.
Am I supposed to 'follow my dreams'? Is it literal?
I'm not sure what I want anymore, whether I'd be happier single. My subconscious yawps but I ignore it.
Last night I was cheating with 3 of my ex's, at once, in my sleep. She said I was sleep screaming again, but I only remember the spice I felt for life. It's been so long.
Yikes dude. You need some counselling.
That's my pro tip that is disappointing lmao