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[–] gmtom@lemmy.world -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But then you're competing with far more people for that girls interests than you would with random normie girl.

[–] Seasoned_Greetings@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Random normie girl is looking for partners interested in the same stuff she is. By chasing one you have nothing in common with, not only are you competing with all of the guys who share her interests and hobbies, but you're putting yourself at a huge disadvantage by actually not sharing her interests and hobbies.

The competition pool is the same. What changes is whether or not she might find you interesting in the first place.

[–] gmtom@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's only true if you assume that both sets of interests have similar gender ratios. It's no secret nerdy hobbies are heavily male dominated, so you will be competing with far more people.

[–] Seasoned_Greetings@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

So the solution is to get other hobbies, not bother women in places that you're in soley to meet women.