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I would like to point out that "PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES" is taking you for a ride (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 year ago by CommunistLady@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/chat@lib.lgbt

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Its been banned on blahaj.zone, startrek.website, and hexbear.

On hexbear, was banned for transphobia and racism, as well as the original account being banned for a chaser username.

On blahaj, was banned for harassment, personal attacks, and ableism.

On startrek.website, was banned for being a transphobic troll.

Beyond all of that, the username is obviously a chaser username and is transphobia itself.

Not saying what you should think, but you should draw your own conclusions rather than be manipulated by snippets of out of context screenshots.

I just lurk all the LGBT places, not really tied to any one spot. Hope they can all stop being so fractured one day and will express actual queer unity like irl spaces.

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[–] CommunistLady@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

@Veraticus@lib.lgbt Idk why but your comment does not seem to be federating right on this end. If open transphobia in a username doesnt break your rules, youre really not an lgbt positive space

[–] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

It seems like they want to see pics of fat enbies, which is not transphobic, nor is a username suggesting their desire to do so.

[–] PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah, I mean, I don't even want pictures of fat enbies so much as it's a joke about me being gay. If I saw some that would be pretty nice, but it's mostly just me proclaiming proudly that I'm gay and that I'd like to normalise attraction towards people like me, who are often portrayed by society as unlovable and unattractive.

[–] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's a fine username, they're simply using the most uncharitable reading possible of it (that you exclusively like fat enbies and such a stance is equivalent to being a fat enby chaser which is equivalent to transphobia) to perform character assassination. As most of Hexbear's content, it's breathless, derogatory, inflammatory, and unrelated to most people's reality.

[–] PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago

Sexually I only like fat enbies, because being fat is part of my gender. I've been in a sexual relationship with enbies who weren't physically fat, but for whom fat was also part of their gender. I would not be sexually attracted to someone who was fat but didn't want to be. Romantically I like lots of kinds of enbies because my romantic gayness is a little less strict.