guns

I have never owned a gun, but have shot occasionally here and there on a shooting range. I understand the basics of gun safety and can get around the day-to-day of gun ownership. My wife and I are thinking about doing a full on safety training + CC so that both can use this gun we are purchasing in case anything happens.

I have been eyeing a few guns here and there, but wanted to get your thoughts on what would you recommend in my situation:

• At least 12 bullets per mag as stock mag
• Lowest recoil possible
• Compact enough without it being an issue on accuracy (need something that is big enough to be accurate but small enough that I can CC from time to time, very occasionally)
• Easy enough for my wife to handle. She's not into guns, but probably something that would throw her off is a lot of recoil
• Comfortable grip

The guns that I have tested up until now:

• Glock 19 Gen 5
• S&W M&P M2.0

Guns I am still considering:

• Sig Sauer P320
• Sig Sauer P365 XL

Any thoughts?