this post was submitted on 15 Oct 2023
17 points (100.0% liked)

Parenting

1773 readers
6 users here now

A place to talk about parenting.

Be respectful of others' parenting decisions.

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 

My kid [3yrs] speaks the local language with his other parent (separated. 50/50). and English with me (my native language). I speak both and my kid knows this, so I can't hide it.

He speaks the local language well, but English is a struggle. Comprehension is 100%, but he only speaks random words. He mostly speaks to me in the local language. Where we live, he will learn English in school, so I'm not worried about that.

I've tried various things to get him speaking English, but it's a struggle.

Are there any strategies that might work?

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] vivadanang@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

Two ideas to try:

some age appropriate english comic books - how old we talking?

reward engaging in english - I always give my kid recognition for expanding her vocabulary, if they use it appropriately in context and definition. I'll say "nice - level up on vocab" and fistbump, and if possible reward with something I've 3d printed or a sticker or vr time. The recognition and encouragement 'moment' have made it fun for them.