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[–] bleistift2@feddit.de 129 points 1 year ago (3 children)

100% the very last paragraph. Why do I have to wait for 78 messages to trickle through for one thought?

[–] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 108 points 1 year ago (2 children)

To add to that, starting with "hi" and waiting for a reply is a great way to not get a reply from me.

[–] Oszilloraptor@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It depends.

My coworkers write me "hi, do you have 5 min?" without telling me what it is because they know I would drop what I'm doing and directly focus on the new task. (It's how I am, and they know how to deal with it). With a little hi... they give me the option to say "sure, lets talk in 10 min" and finish what I'm doing.

[–] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 year ago

But even "hi do you have 5 minutes" is more than I get from one team. I get "hi" and then they wait for my reply before anything else. If I don't reply right away, nothing, silence.

[–] Darrell_Winfield@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I get that, but counterpoint is that you don't have to react and reply to each message IMMEDIATELY. The time stamps show that the messages all were within 3 minutes of the start. If this even happened at all.

Maybe it's because I'm old, but text messages don't require an immediate reply. Take a breath and be patient.

[–] XbSuper@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

Even if I wait, I still have to listen to multiple notifications instead of just 1. Anyone who does this gets left on read for at least an hour from me (often times I just forget entirely).

[–] uis@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

https://nohello.net/ https://dontasktoask.com/

I think boss shoud reply with 100 Continue next time