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[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

My wife's parents died 5 years ago in the same year when our first child was 3. I'm not sure how to describe my parents. I have nothing against them. We get along great. They do help, but they are not actively there much, either if that makes sense. Talk on the phone and see each other once a month for family dinner. They will help in an instant if I call them (definitely have a few times) and will watch our children when we need to do something. After that? That's about it. They were mostly hands off with me as well, and so it's just who they were. I enjoyed it and loved the freedom. I don't disagree with the logic either. They did their time and just retired. They spent there life mostly taking care of me, so they deserve some much needed freedom as well to do all the things they never could partially because of me. Some may say it's not enough, but I don't feel that way, and I also hope to enjoy my later years just like them. You give up a lot having kids, you also have a life to live as well at some point.