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content warning: sexual contentI’m a woman. When I was 18, I was pressured by my girlfriend. We were chatting on Discord, believe it or not, since I met her on a Discord server.

She’ll be Roslyn here.

Roslyn is a Hispanic lady who lived in the UK when I talked to her. Unlike me, she didn’t speak Spanish much. We met on some anime, videogame server and she was one of the really nice moderators who was trying to become an admin.

Although at first, we got to talking and became friends, Roslyn, I noticed, wrote a confession that she was interested in someone in the server but she wouldn’t say who. Then she confessed and said their name started with “W”. My name starts with W.

Roslyn eventually confessed that she was attracted to me. She was really pretty indeed. Well-liked on the server too with many friends.

I liked her, but not really like that. At first, I said no.

Then, she responded with a photo of her boobs asking “Seriously? You don’t want these?”

I began to feel uncomfortable so I said yes, that I’d date her online.

While we were dating, though, she did not seem dirty for a while. She was actually a good girlfriend, so I started to like her. I’ve called her on video and audio and even slept on video and audio call.

One day, she asked me if I’d show my boobs or vagina. I said no, I wasn’t comfortable with that. She said that since she showed me hers, I should do the same.

I still said no and that I didn’t ask for her to do that. She continued pressuring me.

She said, though I knew it definitely wouldn’t happen, that she’d do it for me and that I was “lucky we weren’t IRL dating”.

The comment seemed creepy, but she was really pretty and I wanted to make her happy.

I did so, eventually. I went in my room and showed my boobs.

She tried showing her vagina at one point and getting me to show mine despite me saying no several times. She tried to convince me I was being prudish and petty.

I eventually broke up with her out of anger and sadness before I could give in to another one of her demands.

People I’ve talked to have just asked me if she was hot and stuff. Yes, but why does that matter? It would only be bad if she was ugly? And no, I’m not lucky.

Goodnight, all.

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[–] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 2 points 22 hours ago

Thanks so much!!