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Is it misogynistic if I prefer to date traditional Latina women? (lemmy.ca)

submitted 2 weeks ago by Himedanshi@lemmy.ca to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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The reason why I prefer to date traditional Latina women is because as a Latino myself I want my future wife to have the same cultural background as me, the same language as me because I in my experience my mother tends to get along alot better with my latina girlfriends than my non latina girlfriends that I have date in the past. And I genuinely just want to have a housewife who is taking care of the kids and cleaning the house when I'm working 60 hours a week to provide for my family. and is able to get along with my mother. Does this make me misogynistic?

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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Maybe? Question though, your girlfriend may want the kids and housewife and shit at first, but what if she changes her mind or you have trouble conceiving? Your reaction will determine if you're misogynistic or not. Life sometimes happens to you without your input or regards for your preferences.

[–] Himedanshi@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago

Hypothetically speaking if my girlfriend changes her mind on having kids and being a housewife and she instead wants to work a full time job and have no kids. Then I would support her decision and I will just be a househusband that cleans the house everyday, goes grocery shopping and makes dinner for my wife after she comes back from a long day of work. To make her life more enjoyable for her.