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Some people say they are addictive, but to me shorts are an absolute nightmare, I despise them, I hate them, I'm allergic to them.

The ultra quick cutting, the often chopped style, the accelerated voice talking at you without pause or mercy even at 1.0, the subtitles in the center that I cannot disable. It's an attack on my senses, pure overstimulation.

My wife sends me couple of shorts each day and sometimes it's even interesting content-wise, but I absolutely hate this horrible format, procrastinate watching them and wish back a world where this form of media did not exist. It all started even before shorts in the way people did videos, and somehow it spiraled into this kind of hell scape.

Anyone else feeling like this?

EDIT: thanks everyone, now I feel validated, thought maybe I'm the odd one with so strong negative feelings about them! And sorry about the confusion about pants and stocks (that provoked some funny answers though so no regrets). Yes - as you have all figured out, I'm talking about the annoying short videos almost everyone seems to be addicted to.

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[–] Zoop@beehaw.org 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I totally understand. I dont think you're a bad person for toying around with the idea if it's hurting them.

I've thought about doing the same thing to my mom's phone on her ReVanced app and then just go "huh, I guess YouTube broke something for everyone in ReVanced again. Sorry! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ " since I'm the one that sets it all up for her and researches and fixes it when it breaks. She has super bad untreated ADHD and she gets sucked into them super easily and ends up spending tons of time watching and getting worked up about nonsense, harmful, 'conspiracy theory' garbage made to target, upset, manipulate, and take advantage of people like her... It's concerning me. It's wrong.

But it also feels wrong to lie to her and make changes to her phone without her consent, ya know? I don't know...

I'm curious to know if you end up doing it, and if so, how it goes.

*Edited to add: oh god I didn't realize how long and rambly this comment ended up until after I posted it WHOOPS! 😅 My apologies. I guess if any community will understand, it's this one, ha!

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 hours ago

It might be worth considering telling her that you think it's unhealthy, and asking if she'd be up for testing blocking them and seeing how it makes her feel. After a month (or whatever you decide) if she wants them back you can do that.

Knowing my parents, they wouldn't agree to this no matter how good or reasonable it seems. They aren't addicted to shorts, but they are to conservative media, and it seems really unhealthy for them and seems to have made them worse people. Maybe you'll have better luck though. I think if you do it without her consent it'd be even worse if/when she finds out.