I’m in the second one, but instead of the first one, I joined the My Parents thought I was just lazy and worthless and did everything they could to make me feel bad about it, and when that clearly didn’t work, they doubled down on the same strategy even harder, and now I am triggered just being in the same room with them from the PTSD they gave me Club. It’s honestly not a great club? I do not recommend joining.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, that club sucks. The well-worn rut of defensiveness and constantly on guard because of facing so much criticism is stress you can’t seem to escape.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I feel so validated!

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

IYKYK. Sorry you’re having to deal with it. How you feel is real.