This post is "FYI only" for blahaj lemmy members. It is not a debate, and is not intended for non blahaj lemmy users to weigh in and offer opinions.
I recently received reports of a feddit.uk user espousing transphobia. Specifically, this was a feddit.uk user refusing to use the word cis, repeating the "adult human female" dog whistle, and claiming that trans women are not women. I approached a member of the feddit.uk admin team and raised my concerns and sought clarification of their stance on posts like this, where the transphobia is mostly dogwhistles, and "civil disagreement" on the validity of trans folk.
I was told by the feddit.uk admin that their preferred response is this kind of transphobia is to "sort it out through discussion and voting". However, the comments in question are currently more upvoted than downvoted, and little "sorting out" has occurred. The posts remain in place.
At this point, the admin stopped responding to my messages despite being active elsewhere on lemmy. When it became clear they were ignoring my messages and had no intention of removing the posts in question, I made the decision to defederate the instance.
I know some folk agree with the feddit.uk admins approach of pushback through discussion and voting, but this instance is not designed to be that kind of space. Blahaj lemmy is meant to be a place where we can avoid the rampant transphobia universally visible on nearly every other social media platform, and where we can exist without needing to debate our right to do so.
Blahaj doesn't allow transphobia, period. It is a safe space for those who don't have anywhere else safe to go on the Fediverse. If an instance refuses to deal with its users being transphobic, then it gets defederated, simple as that. It's better to defederate from problematic instances than to allow Blahaj's userbase to have to deal with transphobia, both casual and direct. If its users wanted to be around that, they wouldn't be on Blahaj. It's pretty telling that 99% of Blahaj's vocal userbase is supportive of Ada's decision here.
The feddit.uk admins failed to remove transphobic nonsense from their instance and went silent when told how and why it was a problem by Ada including violating feddit.uk's rule 1. Hence, defederation until they get rid of that transphobic nonsense.
They didn't ban the people on their instance like you wanted so you shut out the entire instance. I love watching "liberals" discover disctorships in their own communities. It's cute.
Found the idiot right-wing troll.
You didn't read a word I said, and it shows. If you don't like what Blahaj does, they're not forcing you to be there. Not sure what liberals have to do with anything here either lmao.
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