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This post is "FYI only" for blahaj lemmy members. It is not a debate, and is not intended for non blahaj lemmy users to weigh in and offer opinions.

I recently received reports of a feddit.uk user espousing transphobia. Specifically, this was a feddit.uk user refusing to use the word cis, repeating the "adult human female" dog whistle, and claiming that trans women are not women. I approached a member of the feddit.uk admin team and raised my concerns and sought clarification of their stance on posts like this, where the transphobia is mostly dogwhistles, and "civil disagreement" on the validity of trans folk.

I was told by the feddit.uk admin that their preferred response is this kind of transphobia is to "sort it out through discussion and voting". However, the comments in question are currently more upvoted than downvoted, and little "sorting out" has occurred. The posts remain in place.

At this point, the admin stopped responding to my messages despite being active elsewhere on lemmy. When it became clear they were ignoring my messages and had no intention of removing the posts in question, I made the decision to defederate the instance.

I know some folk agree with the feddit.uk admins approach of pushback through discussion and voting, but this instance is not designed to be that kind of space. Blahaj lemmy is meant to be a place where we can avoid the rampant transphobia universally visible on nearly every other social media platform, and where we can exist without needing to debate our right to do so.

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[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Some people will endlessly bicker about the most stupid shit. Like, who the fuck even cares if someone wants to be a woman or a man? That's like the least problematic thing nowadays.

[–] SmackemWittadic@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Unfortunately even moreso in our region of origin, buddy.

The assumption that enforcing these viewpoints on everyone is "for the greater good" is a flawed one, as people who do not share their beliefs WILL NOT share the "greater good" to begin with. I will not enforce my beliefs on anyone else without their willingness.

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I will never get why most arabs hate gays. Why? They're clearly fine with shattering the rules of their religion, and cherrypicking sharia; so why not just be consistent and not hate gays? Their existence affects literally no one.

Though, we're more prone to arguing about ridiculous stuff rather than, you know... actually fixing our problems and corruption lmao

[–] SmackemWittadic@lemmy.world 6 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah I think step one is solving the massive blatant corruption on an international level that every country has haha

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

You don't get it bro, we need to kill those gays and trans people. then we can get democracy and development! ~~/s something something poes law~~

edit: forgot to mention, i'm grateful there are sane arabs on lemmy, who actually have sensible political/social takes. it drives you insane to live here sometimes lol. Great to have you here :D

[–] scintilla@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago

Not an Arab but I really appreciate just how "human" most of Lemmy is. There are of course a lot of insane people still but I don't usually come away from Lemmy with the same general malaise that I did on reddit.