But also, can I get some advice from the community? After a long while, I finally lifted the veil over my eyes and came to terms with the fact that I am totally and unapologetically homosexual. But I've been married for a long time so we're trying to make it work and just extend ourselves to polyamory. I've booted up a dating profile, but should I include that I am a baby gay? Do I include my open relationship? Or are those things to talk about in person? Any advice?

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[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Definitely be open about being married. They don't need your life story up front, but you save a lot of time on doomed conversations if they start off knowing that. I'm not sure about any homosexual apps, but back when I used it PoF and OKC had options to specify things like that in your profile so people could filter by your relationship status.

[–] Num10ck@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

PoF = Plenty of Fish. Its what worked for me.

[–] guy_threepwood@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Not sure what PoF is like these days but last I heard (a few years ago to be fair) they would ban you if you said you were polyamorous and point you towards Ashley Madison, since they were a little bit too religious to even be nice about it.