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Abuse problem with DMs and lack of delete (slrpnk.net)

submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by ellie@slrpnk.net to c/meta@slrpnk.net

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Slrpnk and lemmy are great, and I understand they are volunteer driven. With this post I don't mean to be pushy, and I'm grateful for this place and the software, but I hope it's useful to point out where there might be trouble for users down the line:

So I might be missing something, but there seems to be no way to delete a private message, not even after reporting it. Given the nasty things some people may send just to mess with somebody, this seems like a dangerous omission to me that is at a high risk to lead to grief if not addressed at some point. Is there some bug tracker where perhaps this omission could be best pointed out?

My apologies if I'm missing something however. Perhaps I'm just too silly to see the button, it's happened before.

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[–] InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No you're absolutely right and it's dumb as bricks.

Right now the only person who can delete a PM is the sender, not the recipient.
The recipient can mark it as read, but that doesn't help much.
Your local admin can do it for you in the database, for recipients local to the instance.
There currently is no way for a local admin to trigger federation of deletion of PMs sent to remote users either.
Although I think there's a Pull Request that implements the "removed" state.
I imagine that would trigger on bans that remove content.
I'm not sure if this will be exposed to users or just admins.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

How can I delete PMs I send? They seem to disappear after hitting send.

[–] InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Select "All" instead of "Unread" at the top, your sent PMs should be in there.
There'll be a trashcan icon which allows you to delete them.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I guess its just lemmy being a bit weird, because they don't always show up there.

[–] InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Select both the "Messages" (as opposed to "All, mentions, etc.") and "All" (as opposed to "Unread") filters.
By default, I think the inbox will try to show a mix of each type of message/mention/reply and you might kinda miss messages in the feed.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

Yeah, thats what I tried. I just put it up to lemmy being weird.