So something that always bothered me: do we legally have to put restrictions on their access? Like I clearly can't claim ignorance to knowing how its possible, and since my son is a minor, it's illegal to provide access to the content.

I would rather put up layers that he figures out how to work around since that's how I learned so much too.

[–] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 18 points 1 year ago

That's actually an interesting question. As far as I can tell, while it is illegal to show minors porn, I don't think parents are on the hook of their children access it. Common sense would argue that a parent can install all the filters they can, but kids are crafty and nothing will stop a teenage boy from taking care of business, though I'm sure some religious state reps/senators would say otherwise. But, to your point, I don't believe parents incur liability from their kids looking up boobs online, especially without their knowledge. Now if a sicko parent is actively showing kids naughty videos, that definitely is a crime.

https://www.hg.org/legal-articles/showing-porn-to-a-minor-is-it-a-crime-48946

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 3 points 1 year ago

Not every parent knows how to enforce that kind of control, and no matter what you do, there will be loopholes.

Bajillion porn sites blocked? Oh look, he's now getting his porn off a Telegram or Discord channel! Blocked those, too? "Hey, school friend, can you email me some stuff? Yeah, my parents blocked nearly everything, only email opens"

As the other poster said, the only thing parents should not do is facilitate access, encourage or show porn to their kids, for obvious reasons. Ideally, parents should educate their kids, "Yeah, that stuff is for show, actual sex is very different. Work your cardio and don't skip leg day if you wanna impress your partner when you start having sex. Use a fucking condom, too."