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Im becoming unsettled. Maybe a few memes total on first two pages. How could things go so bad? Where are the yester beans gone?

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[–] lordnikon@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If you can't, it can be enough to say that's enough for today and control how much you take in I found a YouTube channel belle of the fifth column is just enough to keep informed but it's short and she put context to the news and just keeps it to the facts no click bait.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'll not denigrate your choices. I will just say that I'm reading and listening to a lot less, but that's because I'm reading/listening/watching across the spectrum. Shutting out others' voices seems to be what got us here.

I haven't worked up the wherewithal to brave Breitbart, OANN etc yet. One, my mental health is so valuable to me, two, I want to continue to consume thoughtful pieces; but I think it's critical to keep an eye on these outlets so we can address legitimate grievances and also be a calm, steady, not-shaming tone to offer a more grounded perspective. It will take time, patience, respect to bring USA back to some semblance of sanity and unity. I think we are on the event horizon of do-or-die together, in that regard ) and I mean globally).

[–] lordnikon@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I don't think i understand your comment what does belle have to do with OANN or Breitbart I wouldn't touch those with a 10 foot pole.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm not sure how to be more plain. People are radicalized because legitimate concerns aren't heard, let alone addressed. Entertaining ideas doesn't mean automatically accepting all of them. How are we to address legitimate grievances if we refuse to listen for them?

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I understand where you're coming from, but the legitimate grievances of conservatives are not covered by the far right media. They're alchemically transmogrified into immigrant hate, queer hate, poor hate.

Their legitimate grievances are largely the same as everyone. Wages haven't kept up with the cost of living is the most basic. But instead of looking at the top of the hierarchy for answers, these media sources redirect that grievance at the bottom of the hierarchy. And conservatives are obsessed with hierarchy.

It is good to study enemy propaganda, but it's hard to stomach. I wish more people could understand in the way you have.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

And when we've tempered ourselves (I'm so not there yet!), we can calmly, rationally refute with truth in non-inflammatory language. We can try to use simpler terms and explain those not understood. I understand it's not going to be easy, that's why I'm working on temperance in small bites, first. Our media has inflamed and made reactionary all of us, to varying extents, because that supports the monied interests. It supports everyone's interests to dial it back, take deep breaths and respond rather than react. Don't think the Neo Duopoly is going to do that; they will counter it with even more inflammatory rhetoric.

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm literally texting with my MAGA father in law as we speak. He is embarrassed by how Zelenskyy/Ukraine were treated yesterday. There is hope.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 4 points 2 days ago

Yes there is. The formerly maga parent who put me out of their car twice and home once for criticizing the sitting president now sends me inflammatory memes making fun of him. I do not respond to them, except to occasionally ask them to pray for our president and leaders, since they retain religion. It's true it is the punitive, hateful sort of religion, but the very few times I've responded to ask them to do so, I mention "pray for those who persecute you."

We have a long and rocky row to hoe. We'd best get on with it.