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Argumentative comments trigger me, please stop torturing me. Ask for consent before speaking in this shared space.
I'm fine with you experiencing emotional pain like guilt for things you've done wrong. It's not my job to manage your emotions anyway.
You can't demand behavior from me - that's not a boundary (hint hint).
It's too bad arguments trigger you, but that's not a trigger I am willing to step around much as simple conflict is part of communities and is not equivalent to discussing sex with people beyond their boundaries in any way. You're of course welcome to leave the conversation or block me - enforce your boundaries. Which is what people are doing when they don't talk to you about sex, you're violating their boundaries and they distance themselves from you as a natural consequence. You have the same options here as the other scenario of someone being given a panic attack because you have to talk about sex in a way that violates their boundaries. That being said, irl there is harassment, so even the law understands things like emotional boundaries. Harassment doesn't extend to answering someone back on an open forum, though.
It's so funny, men who are mad women won't talk about sex with them and then they do stuff like this. I never have the issues you all have, and it's because it's a you thing in how you treat others. I just... lol.