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[โ€“] jumperalex@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

No. That's just what makes a good person. Pretty much the same with every other "Being a man means yadda yadda yadda" I've ever heard so far. Every time, what follows are a list of qualities that make a good person/human, and are neither exclusive to men, nor counterfactual for women. To think otherwise would be to imply that women don't/can't/shouldn't possess those qualities (I'm not saying you thought otherwise Hadriscus; I'm just taking my thought to the next logical step).

I don't have a satisfying answer for what "makes a man" because I reject the entire concept that there is any list of qualities of what makes a [gender]; or that one is even needed. The closest could be a pair of testicles (per Laser's reply), but then we'd enter into a trans debate and frankly I support trans-rights.

Or to really sum it all up, the entire debate is just a bunch of gatekeeping and social identity politics ("man" and "woman" both) that really is just stupid and counterproductive to us all getting along.

[โ€“] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

yea, I agree,... nothing to add. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ My post above was just a quote from the big lebowski, I'm glad it prompted such a thoughtful reply

[โ€“] jumperalex@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

[face palm] I haven't seen that movie in a LOOOONG time.