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I won’t bore you with repetition so I’ll just link.
I think we mostly agree, doing the stuff you want to do in life should not be stifled by your gender. But in the OP and in this thread I get the feeling that “a man likes to feel like a man” automatically carries with it the implication that others should accommodate (by for example dumbing themselves down in order not to damage fragile masculinity as you said). I don’t see that implication at all. Is there some cultural context I’m missing here? Is this something you would say in a context where fragile masculinity is in danger of being harmed?
The last question is a leading one and poorly framed, so I won't answer it. This is a thread about two comments on a discussion, we don't know the context of what came before or any relationship these two people had.
But yeah, in my circles of women who are just fucking tired, we've all been told we gotta let men be men, and that's somehow our responsibility. So that's the context, we hear that phrase in a different tone than men do.