It's hard enough to find someone already. Like - ok fine I get it, yes, being a lesbian (or bi) feels like the only way anyway, cuz like yeah, how can you not like girls. I find that somewhat hard to imagine.

but that turns into a bad thing, because all of a sudden you have all these super pretty girls in the dating space and they are all prettier, smarter and more comfy cozy than you!!! I feel this is especially the case when transfem (but what do i know)

[–] odium@programming.dev 4 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

how can you not like girls. I find that hard to imagine.

https://lemmy.ml/post/19729479

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Yes kinda. But I do feel that generally, people are more attracted to girls than to guys. And I don't like that.

[–] mossy_@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

As I kid, I thought it was interesting that while there were male and female voices available for voice assistants (like Siri), people would always pick the female ones

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 hours ago

That is fair. i think people generally just prefer feminine voices. Other than in podcasts for some reason.