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I mean being autistic is a problem, in the same way losing a leg is a problem. It's not something to make a fuss about and definitely not something to hate people for, but people with even high-functioning autism definitely struggle with many things, and when you get to low-functioning autism it's a straight up disability.
I'm of the opinion that a lot of the "problems" with autism come from societal issues and lack of education rather than an innate thing.
Everyone has problems they need to work through. It's just that autistic people don't get the support they need.
As someone who struggles with it, you have absolutely no idea what the hell you’re talking about. Even if I had all the support in the world my life would still be struggle day in and day out, because it’s so much deeper than just being different. I understand why people try and make it seem that way, but it seriously minimizes what it actually is.
My godson is low to mid functioning and people like the one you're replying to don't realize that they're playing into the hands of people who want to cut help and financial aid for autism as a disability. "It's not really a disability" is extremely harmful.
But also I think society has done a great harm in hiding the most disabled among us. People hear autism and think some asshole on TV who plays as a savant. They don't think of the 17-year-old man who can't use the restroom and can only eat two food types despite years of therapy, who becomes violent if he can't watch YouTube on demand.
On the flip side, there's also the people who say that autism is nothing more than a disability that needs to be cured. This is probably what that they were referring to. Both extremes are harmful.
I would appreciate low functioning autism being cured. It is a hellish existence for a lot of people.
Some, sure. But even a perfect society wouldn't prevent me from crying when the sun shines in my face. It's ok that some of us think of certain aspects of our autism as problems and for some of us to not think that.
I feel like there needs to be more programs designed to get Autistic people in technical jobs. Obsession with a topic will quickly make you an expert. Get them in a position where the hard skills are assumed to be easy and the soft skills are the stuff to learn.