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[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 19 points 6 days ago (42 children)

Outside of a philosophy discussion, it's not a genuinely good question because it is irrelevant to our daily lives. In any way that matters to society, a woman is a person who says they are a woman. It's that complicated.

[–] Mesa@programming.dev 11 points 6 days ago (13 children)

"Is irrelevant" and "should be irrelevant" are two different things. Fighting by saying the issues are not there—regardless of your actual opinion—has rarely, if ever, worked. It's the same as the "I don't see color" argument.

Also, why would we exclude philosophical discussion? The point is to make you think. I also don't know who this particular person is in the OP, but the question itself has no bias. Maybe this highlights our philosophical differences, but I firmly believe that understanding a system is the most crucial step to revolutionizing it.

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[–] calcopiritus@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

If the question is so irrelevant, why do you even try to answer it in the same comment? Not only answering it, but also making it a fact. As if your opinion is the only one that matters and suddenly it's irrelevant when there's a different opinion.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

My opinion is not the only one that matters. I'm not sure where you got that impression unless you think people should automatically agree with you for no reason other than you want them to when they do not.

I base my opinion on my observations on how the world works. I could be wrong, so feel free explain to me how it negatively affects in our society in any significant way if you don't define a woman as someone who calls themselves a woman.

[–] calcopiritus@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

If other opinions matter, then it is not an irrelevant question. Since it prompts people to tell their opinions.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

You did not explain to me what I asked you to explain to me. I think you just want someone to fight with since you're clearly not discussing this in good faith and I'm not particularly interested.

[–] calcopiritus@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I didn't answer your "request" because that has nothing to do with what I originally said.

If I wanted to get into an hours long conversation about gender I would've said something completely different. Got better things to waste my time on.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

Then I have no idea even what your issue is? That I dare to think my opinion on something is correct? Isn't that how opinions work?

Can you tell me about one of your incorrect opinions?

[–] Bgugi@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (7 children)

So long as society feels it necessary to provide protections for women, the distinction has real consequences. Drawing a line anywhere is a tradeoff between inclusivity and effectiveness.

Taking the party line "high ground" stance of either conclusive self-determination or dodging the question entirely is why this question is so effective.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 6 days ago

I'm sorry, is "conclusive self-determination" the wrong answer? Why?

[–] Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Assuming good faith on the part of those involved, I don't see how inclusivity comes at the cost of effectiveness. Would you care to elaborate?

[–] gimsy@feddit.it 2 points 6 days ago

Assuming good faith, that's a hell of an assumption

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[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (6 children)

I don't think it is that simple.

Women are treated different that men in many societies. In my country there are multiple laws that apply different to a person if it is a woman or a man.

If we are making legislative differentiation because those words, we ought to have them well defined and understand what we are meaning and why we say that a women gets X law applied that a man gets not.

If it is irrelevant it should be, at least, legislatively irrelevant. If it's meaningful we should be clear on what we are defining by woman (or any other gender that gets particular legislation applied for all that matters).

That without talking about the social importance of being a gendered society. I don't know any single society that is not gendered. Once again, if it is irrelevant then we should aim for genderless society. If it is relevant we should know and agree on what it is to be one gender or other.

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