This reminds me of the Heard v Depp case, on the two X chromosomes subreddit there was this long ass comment from someone who experienced abuse and said she wasn't the "perfect victim" because she fought back and hurt her abuser back and how because of this it was harder to get away from her abuser.

And when I asked how does she know that in Heard v Depp case it isn't Depp who is the imperfect victim? Because he had multiple partners testifying to his character of being a kind man etc, while Heard had the opposite (AFAIK).

All I got was silence and downvotes.

[–] Aurora_TheFirstLight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Hive minds are strong remember to not rate your opinion based on how many up votes it gets

[–] AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 3 points 1 week ago

what then am i supposed to rate it on? /hj

[–] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 1 points 1 week ago

I once got a -28xx on Reddit for a comment I still don't think was even interesting. From what I understand, of their scoring algorithm at the time, that means I had a lot more downvotes than that.

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